Guy who bothered us in high school is messing with my friend in college?

[Pauge]

This kid who gave us crap in high school is bothering my friend in college (indirectly). Shortly after she moved in for the semester one of my other friends told me this guy was posting pictures of her on his twitter and mocking her.

It's obvious she didn't know the pictures were being taken. He took about 3 pictures of her around the dorm and added things like "look at this b---" and people commented laughing and stuff.

They attend a big public university and a lot of people from our high school attend there and live in her dorm.

Two things.


1. Should I tell her? If someone did that to be I'd want to know , it is after all, internet. But then again she'd be hurt and uncomfortable around her dorm.

2. How do I brush this guy off. It bothers me he is still bothering her in college and the pictures are out of line. Is he just insecure? It's not even funny.

[Rebecca]

Do not ever be alone with this guy and tell her not to ever be alone with him. Ever. He is the type of person who would rape someone and then take pictures of them naked and put them on the internet.

The next time he takes a picture of her, tell her to shove the camera and "accidentally" knock it to the floor as hard as possible so that it breaks.

[Suchaki akura]

She should switch colleges, no one should have to deal with that. Telling her would be good because she eventually will find out and word would get around that you knew and didn't tell her first; she may think you were in on it too. Just tell her and suggest ideas to her that can help her deal with that situation. What i suggest is either 1) switching colleges or 2) getting hold of the site, the guys name and reporting it to the police. Taking pictures of someone is invasion of their privacy and posting it online is considered harrasment and he could be charged for that. He needs to know that she won't tollerate that, the problem is that your friend lets him get away with this. People do not just bully for the sake of it, they pick easy targets that they can let their anger out because there is problem going on in their own life. Feel sorry for the guy but also realize that your friend has made herself an easy target by not reporting him to the police. Tell the police, be their for support for her because their is strength in numbers.