WHAT IS GOING ON (PLEASE HELP ME; URGENT)?!?!?!?!? :(?

[Georgia Hastings]

For a few days he made me feel as if he really wanted me or he was instensely interested in me... after a few days he withdrew and he avoided my flirting... as if he wasn't ready for a relationship... he would give me the cold shoulder and be constantly on and off with me

he would discuss to me very openly about attractive girls and how he likes small girls and he knows a lot of small girls who are attractive at his school

But from time to time he still flirts with me either really intensely or slightly flirt with me

what does this usually mean?

if he knows I like him why does he constantly hurt me by talking to me or initiating the conversation from time to time giving me some idea that he is interested still.. but he gives me the cold shoulder and acts like what he told me 2 weeks ago did not happen at all...


he only had one girlfriend in the past.

[Mikayla]

He does not know what he wants and my advice to you is run as far away from him as possible.. He's playing on your feelings

[Kayy!]

Im gonna be straight up with you, he isnt interested. He probably thinks of you as just a good friend. You really need to try and move on.

[BILL]

He isn't interested most likely. He talks about the smaller girls because that's what he wants and he is trying to hint that to you. He flirts with you because he knows you like him and he has a somewhat free pass to get what he wants.

I would confront him about it, and set everything out in the open.

[Helene]

It seems like his interested in you, but not ready for a relationship/ or still deciding at this stage.

Maybe let him come to you from now on, if he barely talks to you again, he missed out. If he tries to find ways to contact, see, talk to you, or even find ways so that you notice him, he likes you, but he is shy/ comfused / wants you to make a move.

So basically, if he shows no interested if you stop trying, then it may have just been your feelings all along and he might like you as a friend. OR
if he still tries to flirt in any way, talk to you, treat you differently from other girls, etc etc, then he may be just afraid of rejection.

Don't make the mistake of moving to fast, I did that once with a couple of guys, it just scared them away. I also made the mistake of moving to slow with a guy, we liked each other for 2 whole years, but I was just too shy.... and I lost him.

Make sure you put him in a comfortable place, like if you walk past, ask him how he is, and say you'll see him later/at lunch/ after school/ on social media later. then that way he is still expecting to see you, or hear from you. If he looks alone, maybe sit with him? don't put him under pressure when hes around friends.