Ex gf is seemingly having sex with, and in love with a rebound a month and a half after our relationship ended?

[RaNdOm]

My ex and I dated for four and a half years. I just learned that, now one month (could have been even sooner) after we broke up she is already seeing someone else.

She publicly goes everywhere with him on social media, and a close friend of mine saw conversations of hers where she said stuff like, "I miss you so much", "im so into you," etc. She also talks with this guy about how great their sex is, etc. It seems like she moved on so soon and entered a serious, sexual relationship so quickly. It hurts because it makes me feel like she either knew this guy while we dated or just didn't care about me at all.

I know I shouldn't contact her at all about this. I don't need advice on that, even though i want to because she always said she needed to "learn how to be alone" and now she's already banging some other dude and intermingling their families.

Do you think this is a rebound relationship, and if so, has anyone else felt that way about a rebound only to later learn that they really didn't like the person that much? I just need some satisfaction in knowing that she's hiding the pain of our break up with this and doesn't like this guy as much as it seems and will eventually regret this. Any thoughts?

[Freakyman.EXE]

My thought is why it would matter to you if you guys broke up? She doesn't want to be with you, so if she's going to be a bitch like that just forget about her. If she's like this in a month she could've had it during you guys and broke up to be with him. Those things usually don't last. Rarely but not a lot. But don't be a fool and take her back

[kate]

Some girls, I've had many friends like this, just NEED to have a guy. He could be ugly, an asshole whatever they just need someone !! Though she may have clicked with this guy really well it doesnt mean she never cared about you, it doesnt mean she isnt thinking about you. Two months ago I broke up with my bf of three years, while I've moved on and I was the one to break up with him, I will never be over him, never stop loving and caring about him. I miss his every single day but from an outsiders perspective it may look like I don't. I don't know this girl so I can't tell you anything for certain, but either she is in the exact same position as myself or she is just a heartless bitch who isn't worth thinking about or gettin upset over. Hope that helps

[James]

The best way to eventually feel better is to ignore all of it. Learning about her love life will not make you feel any better. What will make you feel great is, when you realize that life has better things to attend to. That she's in the past and that her life is not of any concern to you. Living well is the best revenge after all (not that I am implying that you want revenge). The feeling is just similar.

However, if it makes you feel better, it's most likely a rebound. I take you as a guy with a decent head on his shoulders. Surely, you would have known if she's been seeing someone behind your back. Best keep the best memories, my friend, for the bad thoughts will only fester anger, resentment and hatred.

Like I said, she is of no concern of yours. Best move on to the next chapter.