Should I bother with this guy?

[Kelly]

There is this guy, and he is realy popular, and realy good looking, realy kind and everything. Our parents are realy good freinds, but we have only ever met once when we greeted each other with a hug, but didnt speek. It was at a party, and every time we passed each other he didnt even look at me. Before this we were friends on facebook. I realy want to get to know him, because we have so much in common- the same big number of 5 siblings, and we both love sports, and plus our siblings and parents are friends. But i follow him on twitter and he doesnt follow me back, so i unfollowed him, and then re followed to it would come up again on his notifications. I have done this 3 times, but he still doesnt follow me. I guess this will be becvause he only follows people he realy knows, but because i never see him in person i will never get to realy know him. I was thinking that i could maybe start to message him on facebook, but becasue he is so popular with girls, he would get this all the time, so how could i show him i just wanted to speek and get to know him, not want to flirt with him like so many people must do all day? Also at the moment he is doing facebook statuses about how he realy wants a girl freind. If he is going to just egnore me, i would rather not be humiliated and just not bother. Any advise on what i should do?? Also if i were to message him on facebook.... what should i say???

[koko]

message him with a straight forward question like for example.."i'm interested do you want to go out?" on facebook of course not twitter how old are you btw? and don't obsess over it

[John Nash]

yeah ^^ ask him directly to the point.. those questions don't bother us guys at all ..

[straightwater357]

I'll be honest: you have no chances romantically with this guy, at least not at this point in time. If he was interested in you, he'd have pursued you by now. He hasn't and if anything, your actions are probably freaking him out a little. Following and unfollowing three times just to get him to notice you? That's a little desperate looking. It's not impossible that romance might eventually blossom, but I'm going to say that if he didn't notice you early on, odds are that he might not be interested in you that way. I'd shoot for friendship first.

If you want to message him, then go ahead. I'd get one of your friends to read your message first, because I have a feeling that otherwise you'd write something that would come across as more desperate and clingy than open and friendly. If you do message him, just say that you're re-introducing yourself as the daughter of _________ and that you thought it'd be nice to get to know each other better since your families are such good friends. Short and sweet is key here and above all else, get a friend to read it over so you don't shoot yourself in the foot.