is my boyfriend cheating on me or am i being an overly attached girlfriend?

[Mary Jane]

About 3 months ago, i caught my bf flirting with a girl on his facebook. Days before that, we got into a fight, and we changed our passwords. He didnt know that i can read his facebook notifications and inbox messages from his email which i logged into using my phone. So i read his msg with the girl. They were like talking about this fb game and the girl was being so cheesy and flirty. She asked whether my bf has a girlfriend, my bf said he does have one, later the girl didnt reply for a day. My bf sent a msg to her asking if there is anything wrong or was she mad. With a smiley '' i know i sound psyco, but using certain smileys is sometimes very suspicious. It was clear thatmy bf was the one who look for her and initiated the whole conversation. I confronted him, he admit that he did flirt a bit but it was not more than just being friendly and said that ive always control him. But then he apologized and deleted the girl of his fb. The girl isnt even his real friend, onky on fb. And they were only friend on fb for a week. Then, about few days ago, i stalked my bf facenook and found that he actually searched for the girl's fb. I confronted and he said he was curious about the girl since he hasnt seen her for quite some time on facebook.i found this bullshit. Why would he even ant to know about her? He even said he wanted to see if ive blocked her from his fb when he was the one who deleted her when we had the first fight about this girl. I dont know what is happening.


Is my boyfriend really cheating on me. Cause what come out from his mouth isnt as important as what is in his heart and mind.

[Valeria]

I don't think he's cheating on u but he does seem overly interested in the girl. U should have a serious conversation with him on how it makes u feel. Tell him to be honest with u n if he is and u hear something u don't like try to be understanding and calmly continue the conversation to try and resolve the issue at hand.

[exiluvexi]

If you suspect it...most of the time its true.

[Jennifer]

i don't think he's cheating on you but he seems really interested in the girl. go and talk to him and sort things out. it's the only way.