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why do i feel insecure and annoyed when I go on facebook?
02-26-2013, 12:06 PM
Post: #1
why do i feel insecure and annoyed when I go on facebook?
When i go on facebook and scroll through my newsfeed i have this insecurity as i look at all these photos of slutty girls, some are pretty. I shouldnt be insecure because theyre slutty and they all annoy me so i kindof avoid going on facebook but i would like to know how to get rid of this feeling when i log in to facebook. also i hate society and alot of people so that might be the cause too. thanks.

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02-26-2013, 12:09 PM
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I feel the same way but for different reasons (career) and just half hour ago i deactivated my FB account.

It is temporary and i can reactivate it whenever i want, but am not going back there until am in a better place.

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02-26-2013, 12:14 PM
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Just remove those people from your friends list/unlike the pages.
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02-26-2013, 12:22 PM
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... On Facebook, you have the ability to form your own themes and community. Instead of feeling insecure, I would suggest defining what type(s) of positive vibes you wish to experience on Facebook. The internet allows individuals to promote themselves in different perspectives, consider it like reality Tv for the internet. You promote your own brand. Just because these girls are displaying themselves in this manner, doesn’t mean that is the reality of the situation. It’s like a guy promoting himself as a millionaire on the internet, when he’s really broke in reality. I would also suggest browsing books on self-esteem at your local library. You should never allow others to define, who you are. Lastly, if you wish to feel empowered, why not make changes in your life to feel better: change bad habits, get in shape, become more organized and positive. Good luck!! :8)
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02-26-2013, 12:32 PM
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its because although you don't necessarily like these people Society teaches you to value their opinion.
You feel that by being different to their 'slutty' lifestyle their opinion of you wont be very high and you feel pressure in someway to impress them. This upsets you because you 'hate society' and don't want to be judged by it however your mind craves their approval.

remember everyone has their insecuritys and people who show off are usually trying to hide theirs
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02-26-2013, 12:41 PM
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get a real life facebook is not real no one cares who you are or what you look like you will never met most of them so don't worry
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