I'm scared to talk to girls because?

[Drizzy]

Last year in school, I liked a girl name Gynea she, and I was way too shy to talk to her, so I started stalking her, and her friends, and I was blocked by them on facebook, because I wouldn't stop messaging them. I was throwing loves notes at her outside for lunch. I kid told me where she lived, and I made a love note with her house address on it. I made it with PowerPoint, and I took a screenshot of Google earth showing her address and gave it to her. I've been telling my friends to tell her stuff. Then I liked her friend Lilly also stalked her. I was reported at school so many times. I also been telling her this kid likes you, and other stuff. I’ve been posting their pictures on my friend’s wall and stuff. After Christmas I got reported to the office about all that. A girl sent me a virus to my computer a bad one. Then one of her 2 friends was joking with me about being friends as well, and I liked 3 of them. I have been reported again about Lilly. I've been doing this for a while, and then I stopped doing this! Now they all hate me for this. I have autism; I didn't realize those things were creepy! I've also told her I also liked some of her favorite artist, I looked at her likes on facebook. I been very creepy around them, and acted cocky around her, and her friends didn't like that. This year they’re acting I little different now, because I’ve been leaving them alone for a while now, but a lot of people that know them. I also got in trouble with a girl this year, and she's also a cheerleader. I almost got arrested, but the principal gave me a warning. I just don't realize I creep girls out! I also don't notice face expressions, and body language. Gynea did like me back, but I stalked her by mistake because I didn't have the nerve to talk to her in person. After I've changed I'm scared to talk to girls now, because I'm to paranoid by thinking I'm going to creep them out. I'm also to scared to message a girl on facebook, because I keep thinking I'm going to get blocked or deleted. When those girls say hi to me, I feel shut down and too scared to say Hi back so I ignore. I think they really gave me a chance to be my friend, but I got paranoid. So I think they said they were joking to I can leave them alone and move on. When I like a girl I try to get their attention by cutting up and stuff. I don't have to nerve to talk to any girls. How can I change this?! Please help?

[Rachel]

Look, dude, stalking is not okay! I have been stalked and it is soooo weird! but a way to overcome your fear of talking to girls is that find what YOU like and see if that girl likes it too not the other way around! Example: (pretend I'm a guy) I go up to a girl and talk about a current event. Pretend they are a guy! And do NOT try ANY moves on them until you are friends! Find a girl who likes you for you! Don't just go for the totally hot ones! Also we HATE being ignored!
But if you want to know the steps to get a girl follow this:
1) say hi every once in a while. This will make them comfortable around you.
2) complement them in a way that doesn't seem stalkerish! like say, "you draw good." or something like that! PS don't comment on their physical features yet.
3) Become friends by talking about things you like and they will open up and say things they like.
4) be brave! ask her out once she is completely comfortable around you.
AND AT ALL TIMES BE HONEST AND NICE!!!! I hope this helped...

[Hana]

okay hopefully that helps when you like someone then tell them straight up it takes guts but you can do it i can see that when you like someone you want to tell them in any way just not by telling them in their face... when you really like someone you won't like someone else again that easily, she does have a little right to be creeped out because stalking her and sending her love notes to her house is a little bit creepy, but not because of that you should be afraid to talk to girls its like you either talk with them and stalk them and be crazy or not even say hi or be their friend. that might lead you into many other problems when you grow up like you just said you almost got arrested just from now on if you like someone tell them no matter what they feel... its better to let them know and know what they feel rather than regret not telling them. hope that helped...