How to handle all the name calling?

[The Weeping Angel]

People are constantly sending me messages on facebook, tumblr and twitter (until I deleted my twitter account) and also on ask.fm (but i'm removing that too) and people keep spreading rumours about how much of a slag I am.

They say i'm a whore, i'm easy, i'm a slag and slut. They ask me questions like "how can I get you into bed, other than the fact that i'm male" and lots of other things that is rude, disrespectful and hurts. They'll say things in the streets or laugh and point as I walk past. I can't go anywhere with out people looking and pointing and laughing. They make it obvious, so it's not even paranoia.

It's pathetic but none of them have the guts to say it to my face. I'd straight out punch them if they did. That's not even a lie. I'm fed up of people's crap.

Yes, ok, I did make a stupid mistake and had sex with a guy at a party and I was very drunk and it was a huge stupid mistake and it happened ages ago. But still, that is no reason for all the bullying. The guy goes round telling everyone heartlessly about how he f'd me and so on. I've told him to stop, and he's stopped posting things on the internet about it - probably carries on saying things to people though. I've told no one and never talk about it.

I don't even know what to do to stop the messages and bullying. Yes, I get what I did was wrong, but it's none of anyone else's business. One mistake, one time and the world won't forget it.

Any advice? And yes, I have learnt my lesson.

[george]

just stop being gay, move to a new place, fuck a couple of hot bitches (girls) and everyone will think your cool and want to hang out with you

[Addu]

I'm sorry, but it is a reason for bullying. People get bullied for race, sex, orientation, looks.. They can't control that. You decided to have sex, and I'm not saying that sex is entirely bad, but the decision to get with a boy at a party was. I know plenty of people who have had sex with the same person they've been with and no one cares. You'll have to ignore it until they just forget. Next time don't give anyone a reason to make fun of you, or go around telling something. If the boy was lying, I'd understand. But he isn't. I don't know what to tell you.