I really need GUYS opinions. Its long but plz help me. Does he like me? I'll help you out too?

[Christy]

- last week, it was the 1st day of class. I saw him walking toward me (i was sitting in front of the class). So i was nervous and pretended i didnt see him. So i noticed that he almost walked in front of me, then i looked up.
He walked pass me without saying hi at all. So i call his name.
He looked back to me & gave me a big & then we talked

3 days ago during the class, he felt sleep. So i snapped fingers in front of his face. He woke up and looked at me with a huge smile.

- he bought textbook from me for $8. He gave me $20 on Wed. I told him i didn't have change and he can pay me later when he has exactly $8.
- 2 days ago,i asked for money in a playful way. He gave me $20 and told me w/ a smile i don't have to give him change.
- So today i told him i didnt have cash to pay him $12. And i offered to pay him lunch or dinner. At first, he told me not to worry about it. But i told him that i didnt want to feel bad. So he's agree to go eat with me.
He also told me that he has 4 quizzes + 1 exam next week so he will be really busy.
I told him, "its fine. Just tell me when and where you want to go

- He asked me to go party with him 4 times and i didnt go 3 times (it happened around 3 months ago) And he didn't ask me anymore.
- In the party that I went with him, his friends, and one of my friend, he was with me for a whole night. (sometimes he went to talk with his friends and girls). He took care of me, bought me drink all night (and he also asked my friend for drink). I think he took care of me bc I never went to the bar. It was my 1st time went to the bar and he knew it.
- I asked him to watch hockey 3 times with me and my friend. He gave me excuses for 3 times (and he doesnt like hockey) i asked him 3 months ago. And i wont ask him anymore.

We are both 22.
He is really nice guy and outgoing guy
He has lots of female friends
He mentioned about one girl name "Jess" before in front of me and his friend. He said he texted her until 3am but it was nothing
- I ignored him once at the end of last semester (last month). But he didn't do anything.
- I followed him on twitter 3 nights ago, but he still hasn't accepted my following yet.
- Sometimes when he walked into the class, he didn't even say hi to me. We just looked at each other face, nodded, and nothing even we sat next to each other.
- In the class, he kinda distance himself from me even we sit next to each other


Additional Details
We already had lunch together once and i paid for him bc he paid for my drinks in the party.
He was refused to go first bc he didnt want me to pay.
We talked for a whole lunch. But i didnt know it was just friends or more.
- he didnt text or call me during school break at all
- he told me that his mom and sister are on campus right now even i dont know them at all
- he texts me first ONLY for school stuff
- we never text outside of school since the beginning
- he never makes effort to be around me.

Does he like me? Do i show him too strong that i like him? Do you think im an option?



P.S. I know I have to ask him to know the answer but I'll later (maybe valentines)

***** I texted him asking about quiz tomorrow. He texted me back LESS THAN 1 min.
I texted him back, "I'm so lazy. I don't want even to study at all"
Then he didn't text me back for 20 mins! After that, I texted him again asking about specific topic in the quiz. He texted me back LESS THAN 1 min again!!!
So I was so frustrated about his ignoring my text so I only text, "Thank you so much"
It took him an hour to text me back, "No problem!"

[Sean]

I can understand why you're having a problem trying to figure this all out. Quite a few things to make you think it could be either. Up until "We are both 22", I thought there was a good chance he may like you as more than a friend, although later parts give me doubts, but even as a guy its hard to tell. I don't think you show him you like him too strongly, if anything you don't not hint enough (I know, that probably shocks you learning that, but I think it's true).

It's quite possible he did like you a few months ago, but then thought maybe you only thought of him as a friend, which is why he seems slightly more distant now, but as I said before it's hard to tell. Remember, life is an experience, so you have to take a risk (unfortunately), but it may well pay off. I wouldn't suggest Valentine's day, just because it may appear very planned, although if you want to do something on that day, by all means go ahead, it would be a great excuse to.

As for the texting, I'm afraid it mean very little, even their content is difficult to interpret at times (they're better for showing you negatives, rather than positives).

It would be helpful to know if a) there is any sort of non-friend like touching from him (or at least more so than he does with other female friends? e.g. holding a hug for a second too long, the resting of a hand on you etc. b) Has he dated or got with anyone recently? If the answers go Yes, No, then it sounds promising, but if it is No, Yes, then not so much.

Once again, it's all about taking the risk. Try and hint a bit more and if he doesn't ask you, do tell him. It would show you have confidence and certainty about your feelings, which if he does like you, he may be unsure whether you do. Also, I don't endorse the use of alcohol for such matters, but if you do go to another party, you could have a couple of drinks (literally that number, you don't want to lose your ability to speak coherently- it's less of a confidence boost and more an excuse for your actions) and be a bit more touchy feely with him and see how he reacts. Up to you of course

Regardless, take the risk and if it turns out he doesn't like you make sure you stay as friends (assuming you want to). And if it all goes to plan, well congratulations and tell us all how the wedding goes haha