If love is true and deep, will she realise that I deserve her? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?

[alec M]

She is beautiful (oh sorry! she is gorgeous), and her heart, her mind - everything about her is so beautiful.. I met her through the internet.. We used to chat on facebook, and yahoo messenger - I still remember when I used to tell her everything, everything about me, my situation-past (I always felt as if we have been together since ages) I confessed my liking, my love, may be too fast (because I always confessed feelings and I always said what I meant..)

She possesses qualities of one in a million - her poems and she draws too.. everything she does as a friend/more than a friend is charming, and more more mesmerising.. and I am very lucky that I have such a friend who cares about me so much.. I love her since over 2 years and I always wanted it to be more than being best friends - even at this point I don't know what she thinks about it? - I feel deep down she also likes me more than a friend. (she loves me as a friend!)

I love only her and no one else. I am sure if I marry I will only marry her and I had decided I wouldn't look for any other matches, means - no to dating, seeking marriage alliance except her (and she knows it well)

I would like to add - after so much time of no direct communication still I am head over heals, I am in so much love (not conditional) and she knows once she provides me an opportunity I will do everything/will be natural that I make sure she becomes happier.. (she can be at her natural best and express her all feelings, she can tell me everything she wishes and rest assured that our friendship, and my feelings wouldn't change..)

If she doesn't come - I am not gonna change my mind, and I will wait till the end of time living with her memories (& You know No questions asked even if you kill!)

So I know this is all about what I think, so what is the question??? Question is - If love is true and deep, I can remain hopeful that she will think about me, and providing me an opportunity so that she can realise I am worth her or I deserve her? This is true love!

No rude comments, Please provide only positive & nice answers!

PS: she said she is from the same community, the same religion and the caste and she is a SC specialist if that helps!

If I am right, we saw each other and stared into each others' eyes and her eyes (that gaze was amazing!) were amazing!

[Vin]

How did this fit in the character space??

[Miranda j]

as long as she's not afraid of being made a fool of like i have, she should be fine with accepting you into her life forever. what you will want from her is her confidence in you, that you wont just turn her into a whore (she wants to believe that you wont do this, she just needs time to let her guard down). but i've been treated so bad i cant let anyone into my life anymore, but if i were her, i'd say she's DAMN lucky because there are NOT many men like you, who realize all these things and are that deep and serious about ANYTHING, but especially women. its wonderful, really. shes incredibly lucky. most of us (especially the beautiful, smart, good ones like myself [not bragging, just used to hearing that and finally accepted it without arguing]) we usually get shit on so much (excuse the language, just sick and tired) but the good ones like me get shit on so much that, if they actually get pushed to the limit that I did, they jus give up for good. which is what i did. but its because we have no more faith in the human race, and we are afraid of being made a fool of again, or being turned into a whore again, and our hearts cant bear it anymore. but as long as she has the confidence in you, the feeling that you wont do that to her, she'll accept you into her life for good. it takes time. the worse her old boyfriends/past is, the longer it will take/harder it will be for her to let down her guard. but she will in time. dont rush it. it'll happen at the right time. i promise.

[Booty]

Okay 1, if you wanted people's honest opinions, then you wouldn't have said to provide only positive and nice answers. You just want people to write that she'll realize you deserve her.

2, why would you ever think you DESERVE a woman? What the hell! That makes you sound like a jerk. God, you are a delusional turd sandwich. I hope she turns out to be a man.

[jollycabbage618]

Have you tell her how much you love her,how much you care? If you have. Then try harder, she can be yours. I'm in the same situation,and i believe God will help me out. So be cool, and buy her gifts. Show her what Love is

[Meera K]

your feelings are really true and deep. unconditional acceptance is all everyone of us is looking for. and if you are ready to accept and love her unconditionally, you have nothing to lose!
see you haven't met her yet. there are all kinds of people one comes across online. so it is very difficult for anyone, especially a girl to trust someone like that. if you are so serious about her, you should meet her in person. let her be assured that you are not some random guy wanting to take advantage of her.
remember friend, love can be unconditional, but marriage is not. so if she accept or rejects you in terms of marriage prospects, depends only on her priorities in life and it will be her decision. and if you truly love her unconditionally, you should respect and accept whatever is her decision. but before that should give your love full opportunity, in terms of meeting her, spending time with her, proposing her formally through your parents if need be.all the best!