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Girlsfriend gets mad over small things? What do I do or say about it?
02-28-2013, 08:48 AM
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Girlsfriend gets mad over small things? What do I do or say about it?
First, I want to say that I really love this girl from the bottom of my heart, and I know she loves me.

Ok, so today ( and similar events like this on other days ) we were watching Law & Order on my computer. After like, 2 episodes, I ended up falling asleep in her arms, or however that went. Later on, like 30mins, she starts kissing me, and I didn't mind, but she's on her period ( which is probably why, but she does this off of her period as well. ) She continues to kiss me for like 15mins, and i'm still tired, so I get a little annoyed, and I tell her to stop 3 times, but the 3rd time I pushed her away a little bit, and she stopped, but then turned around with an attitude. Ok, so 5mins later, she goes to get nail polish ( Told her I don't like the smell before ), brings it back to my room where we were watching Law & Order, sits on my chair where the computer is...Now, I get up because i'm woke and a little irritated ( but not tripping about it ), I proceed to ask her if she could get up so I can use the computer, but then I noticed she wanted to do her nails I guess, so I said nevermind, you go ahead, i will use the other chair...lmao...she then gets up, and lays down, and i'm, you don't wanna do your nails? she's like, no not anymore, and i'm like...ok lol. She plays music on her phone...some damn 2 Chainz of ALL people, waits to see if I will put my headphones on to play my own music, then turns her music off, goes to twitter, ( I was on twitter too, this is how I saw what she said. ) and says "Never Fails," then she said something about people being inconsiderate all of her life for the past 5 years?...

P.S Can you guys please be honest with me? Was I being wrong or Inconsiderate? She told me I could tell her No, or Stop ( Which I know this, not that dumb. ) But then gets a fit when I actually DO tell her NO or STOP...LOL...Maybe it's just a female thing? If not? please tell me what i'm doing wrong and if I should just let it be....thanks...

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02-28-2013, 08:53 AM
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Shes immature, dump her.

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02-28-2013, 08:57 AM
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Sounds like you are BOTH passive/aggressive (which is only slightly better than aggressive/aggressive).
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02-28-2013, 09:06 AM
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let it be...women DO get moody on their periods i would know. itll blow over. but yea you may wanna dump her.
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02-28-2013, 09:15 AM
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Be lucky you have a girlfriend
overlook it
smile
make her feel beautiful
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02-28-2013, 09:17 AM
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A quick snap kick to her throat will fix the situation up quickly. No, no that would be wrong. However, it seems to me that there is a lot of GREY area in your relationship. Meaning, you have talked about certain rules & somedhat agreed with each other, but no RULES & boundaries have been cemented. You need to have a proper convo & set proper guidelines...dont do this whilst in an argument. I personally put my gf in a headlock & ask her if she agrees with me, naturally she does. No I don't, but I'm sure she would not mind. Be honest & 100% open, it has worked for me, in same relationship for 11 years now. If I want peace I get it, if I'm tired & grumpy I warn her that U might throw her through the front window if I hear her voice, she keys me know when she has her period & I lock her outside for a few days. Look as you can see its about honesty & if you live someone than you will respect their requests. You both are wrong in thus situation, mire so her for not learning from previous mistakes, but you both need to be Honest! Lovely dovey, cutesy won't cut it long term in a relationship, you need respect & HONESTY! Good luck my friend.
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02-28-2013, 09:18 AM
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It's simple biology, guys think rationally, and girls think emotionally. When she told you it was ok to tell her no or stop, she never actually thought you would. Next time she tries this, instead of acting irritated and telling her to stop, just tell her that you're tired and that you'll make it up to her later. Then, obviously, tell her that you love her. That's actually a pretty handy word you use to get out of trouble lol
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02-28-2013, 09:25 AM
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Hey I'm girl and I act the same way but not anymore lately since I had a conversation with my boyfriend about my attitude. He was getting tired of me doing stuff like that. The reason she's probably acting like that is because she feels like your not giving her enough attention or you don't care about her or her feelings. Maybe she feels insecure. Just talk to her tell her you love her.
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