I want my ex girlfriend badly?

[Chair]

She broke up over a lame reason, she still had feelings, I begged and pleaded for one day. I just appeared desperate (by logging into her FB again and again, she had login notifications enabled) and pushed her further away. She contacted me 3-4 times after the break up, then one day I ask her is it really over, she said yes. Then I went no contact. 5 days later she wishes me happy new year, i wished her the same. 12 days later I wished her some lame festival. 2 days later I accidentally sent a text to her(nothing special, was talking and abusing my friend), I told her it was by mistake and not to get her attention and went no contact again. 2 days later she talks to my friend (girl on facebook), asks her does she know her (my friend added her), although my ex knew her. Idk why she asked that and they had a short convo. 1 week now, after the last text and we haven't talked. I fear that she'll forget me, may find someone else. But I think she won't at least till 4 months from now because she is going to some other city and thats the reason we broke up and she won't commit to other guy. My cousin says I should wait 2 weeks, then she'll miss me.
She called today, but I didn't pick up I plan on calling her tommorow

[Rahul]

Coming to the realization that you want your ex girlfriend back can be bittersweet. On the one hand, it is a good thing to finally figure out what it is that you really want. And on the other hand, it can be disappointing if you don't really know what it is that you have to do to make her feel the same way. Wanting to date your ex girlfriend again is a pretty common desire for a guy to have, but actually getting her back is not nearly as common. It does happen, though. There are some guys who figure out what it is that they need to do to get back with an ex girlfriend. What is it that they know that you need to discover so that YOU can start dating your ex girlfriend again? Here is a little bit of advice that will help you figure out how to start dating her again:

1. First things first, you need to find a way to get past feeling sad about the break up - The really messed up thing about relationship break ups is, they make you sad. And when you feel sad about the way that things played out, you are not in a position where you can see things clearly and you also cannot give off the right "vibe" to make your ex girlfriend still see you as a guy she would want to date. You have to break that cycle and get past the point of feeling sad about the way things went down before you do anything else.

2. Obviously, you can't just have a one sided situation - I know this might sound obvious, but I think some guys don't really realize this. Just because you want to start dating your ex girlfriend again, it doesn't always mean that she is feeling the same way that you are. As long as it stays one sided, where it is your desire to want to start dating her again but not hers, it's not going to happen. What you need to be able to do is to find a way to make her feel exactly the way that you do about the idea of dating again.

3. You have to realize that you need to also go slower than you'd like to - Chances are, if you really want to get back with your ex girlfriend, that you'd like things to move as quickly as possible. What you have to realize is that sometimes, it just doesn't work out that way and that is okay. As long as you realize that you have to put on the brakes a little bit - you should be okay.

4. You are going to have to impress your ex girlfriend if you want the best odds that she is going to want to date you again.

What most guys do to try to win back an ex girlfriend is almost guaranteed not to impress her. Your average guy is going to do things that make him seem like less of a man. In short, they are going to grovel on their knees to try and win back their ex girlfriend and that is surely not the way to go if you want to impress her. Leave your ex girlfriend feeling really impressed by you - and you'll see that making her want to date you again may not be that hard at all.
Good Luck>r