why is he giving me mixed signals?

[kate]

i have known this guy since march 2011. beginning of a night he just stands around chatting to his friends and turns his back to me. we were drunk the 1st time we met. we ended up kissing (he lied and said it was his birthday. his birthday is in july not march) and afterwards he asked me for my number he text me a few times asking me when is he 'going to get another kiss' or 'what are you doing tomorrow'. when we are out he texts me something like 'having a good night' or 'not talking' even though we are in the same room or sitting across from each other.

we did sleep together a long time ago but we haven't kissed or done anything since. we messaged a few days later after we slept together and he asked me again if i wanted to go for a drive i declined. i sent him an angry text message one night when i left the nightclub cause he ignored me and this time he responded back. he said he 'regretted falling out' with me and told me it was over his guy friend (who is also my friend and he likes me a lot its a complicated mess). he sends me messages asking me am i 'up for a drive' and asking me to his place which is located outside town. he was really nasty with me on facebook a few months ago just because i sent him a few text messages earlier that day he was asking me am i going out. he never even bothered to respond to any of them. next day he said he didn't want to have anything to do with me anymore and when i suggested we stop talking when we see each other he said 'sounds good' and he also said 'i dont want anything to happen with us again basically blunt but true'. im really hurt over it. Just a few days after that incident he deleted me from his facebook account again for the 2nd but this time he blocked me. ive met him a few time on nights out and neither of us have spoken we just looked at each other maintained a bit of eye contact and looked away. he came over to a table i was sitting at with a friend and he left his drink down. should i spoken then was that an invitation?? i also heard from a friend that he called me a 'low life' and that my friend shouldnt talk to me anymore. i also heard he liked me too from his guy friends. i bumped into him another night and he sat at a different table with his back turned to me but i noticed he looked over his shoulder at me twice. i also seen him out another night he said hi to my friend not me but when i looked back he had a smirk on his face. he rubbed his body off mine in a busy night club as he walked by. he looks at me like he wants to take. i noticed earlier today that he removed me from his blocked list on facebook after months of being blocked. what should i do if he tried to re add me? i met him again last night and he just glanced over at me twice.

[wyomugs]

Find someone else. And this time, MARRY him first.


BTW... this really is not an ETIQUETTE question... but thanks for asking!


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