What to expect after a break up from a long relationship...?

[angel]

After 1 month of her breaking up with me....we were together for 9 1/2 yrs. I found out she was going out with a co-worker behind my back. She got together with him asap. On xmas day she gave back 3 of my boxes when we used to live together for 6 yrs. She is always mean toe as if the one who did her wrong.... she talks to me with anger inside her. We both have the same friends (most of them are social media due to our online business we have). Most dont know of the break up...she doesnt want to let them know of it. I care for her and wish her the best with this new guy who also knew I was her love. I know friendship is way too soon... What should I expect now? Will see just ignore me...delete me from her mind...or should I just let her be and if she ever comes back contacting me as a friend...allow her? Pls need advice and no harsh remarks pls. Thank you all.

[Jessy]

well, in my opinion, give it some time. yes she did wrong as she cheated. she should have told you directly and not done this. but if you both are not together, there is no point in letting people know that you are committed! maybe your future girl, the true one, is somewhere out there and thinks u r committed. if u r not, let the people know. no harm in that. and u just need to ignore her, u have your life. she cheated on you, you didnt do anything wrong. if she comes to you, talk politely. if she doesnt, have patience and be confident that you are not wrong.
good luck