Should I date a friend who's about to graduate?

[Sam]

(TL;DR: My friend, who I may-or-may-not have been friendzoned by, is about to graduate college, and potentially move away. I'm afraid asking her out will make the friendship weird. Also, I'm inexperienced, and don't know how to gauge interest beyond friendship, or ask her out.)

I know this woman who I see once a week at a group we're both a part of. She broke up with her boyfriend a couple months ago. We both go to the same college (I'm 19, she's 21). Unless she finds a good job/internship in our town of 50,000 people (unlikely, with her liberal arts degree & the economy), she'll move back home, out-of-state, in May.

We've known each other for a little under a year, but we're not best friends or anything. I'm wary of the friendzone. I'm also afraid that asking her to a date will make things weird if she says no.

She's had multiple relationships, and I've never even been on a date, nor made it to first base. I can talk to girls and everything, but I don't know how to ask her out, make her know it's a date (especially since we're kinda friends), gauge her interest...

We've been talking to each other more often lately. More one-on-one at the group. A simple Facebook message turned into a 90-minute conversation (where she complimented me by calling me wise). She's taken more of an interest in me on social media. Also, when she said she was bored and had too much free time, she seemed receptive when I offered she should hang with me and my friends sometime.

Do I risk making it awkward, or having a mere three-month relationship? Or do I go for it? If I go for it, how?

(Just curious of feedback. Thanks!)

[Love]

yes go for it cause if you dont my dick will take her away from you and ill send a pic of her blowing me to you..... IM NOT JOKING

[Quentin]

NO! That this woman permitted multiple relationships is not a good sign, rather the opposite.
She is probably a rather attractive woman, but it is the inside of a person that lasts, the outside changes rapidly, as time goes on.
You will only hurt yourself, even should the woman give the date.

[David]

You're thinking too much about this.

firstly, the friendzone thing - did she even say she sees you only as a friend? If not, you're friendzoning yourself.

Secondly, she's probably comfortable with you enough to go out with you. Just get her out, and hang out together. Get to know her and move on the next level. Think about what you want to do, like catch your favourite, a new place with good food, a romantic place, and get her to join you.

Thirdly, whether you have experience or not, or your age difference, all these don't matter. What is the most important is that you take action, and make a move. If someone else takes actions and she become taken, you will feeling like kicking yourself in the ass.

Yes, there is this fear of rejection where you're scared that she will reject you and make it awkward. But NO. You need to man up, and ask her out. If you don't, you'll regret. If you do, you have a chance to go out with her, and maybe you two become couples.

Seriously, what's the worst that can happen? She says no? Okay. If she says no, then good. You know for sure that she's friend zoned you, and you can MOVE ON with your life.

Also, if she friend zones you, you can ask her to introduce other female friends of her to you. Win-win situation for you either way.

If she doesn't want to introduce you to her friends, then chance are she's just using you in the context of "friend".

Hope this short answer helps

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