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need help what do i do?
02-28-2013, 01:40 PM
Post: #1
need help what do i do?
right i met a great girl i like ad i think she likes me we chatted for about 4 hours in a bar she gave me her name on face book (3 time) but no phone number because its a international number (exchange student) i added her we talk i told her i liked her and asked if she wanted to meet sometime so she invited me to a party i went we had a good time when it came to leaving she said something to her friend in french then walked with me (opposite way she needed to go) she kissed me on the cheeks and lingered near me i froze and panicked (i know this was an opertunity to make my move and kiss her) we talked a bit then she left walking back to her friend

so i was think i messed up completely and missed my chance

i was talking to her friend on facebook earlier and it went along the lines of

" wanted to say something to her when we walked away but i panicked" me
"don't it is ok you need to talk to her " her
"why" me
"to know how she feels you can't stay without knowing" her
"i feel as if i have messed things up i did text her asking if she wanted to meet up but i dont think she does" me
"you will see just try" her

im bad at reading women is she subtle telling me something? have i blown it completely? please help me

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02-28-2013, 01:41 PM
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Don't make the mistake of getting her friend involved!
This is between you and her. Don't put her friend in the middle of it - it's an awkward position to be in, and it's not up to this friend to tell you what to do. Her loyalties lie with her friend, and NOT with you. She will do her best to keep out of it and not say the wrong thing. She's right. You need to talk to this girl directly - take ACTION and ask her on a date. If she likes you, then it's very unlikely you blew your chance. If anything, a missed oppotunity to kiss will build anticipation. But if you keep on not taking the initiative and using her friend as the middleman then you WILL blow it.

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02-28-2013, 01:50 PM
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Be more confident dude! I swear . . . don't hold back! Ask her out etc. I mean really you have nothing to lose. It sounds like this girl likes you but perhaps you are a little shy! Also she has obviously talked with your other friend about you (good sign) and your friend seems to be encouraging you to do so! Go for it man! Ask her out . . . If you had a long conversation in a bar . . . you must have picked up on some activities she likes . . . start talking/joking/laughing over FB or whatever. Then ask her out . . . simple. Honestly man, if this doesn't work I will give you my address and you can shoot me! Smile

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02-28-2013, 01:58 PM
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When you feel without any confident on yourself , how can people have confident on you. You should show your great side to her. If you really do not have confident , you are better not talking to her . Otherwise , you have 0.%tp get to know her better .
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