Random guy wants me to try on clothes for him, what do I do?

[redcatmop]

Sure, and you can do it risk-free in a few easy steps:

1. he takes you shopping.
2.. he takes you home.
3. he leave.
4. you arrange to try on the clothes for him in a Skype session.

[A Yahoo! Lady]

I worry that he's just trying to bait you with the "promise" of buying you new clothes. You'll notice he only said "try on" not "buy" but the implication is there.

What else is it about this guy that attracts you? If there isn't anything else then don't meet him. Trust me, he won't be buying you new things unless he feels he HAS to in order to get more from you.

Relationships shouldn't be bargaining for this or that. Why can't he just say "let's go meet for a coffee".

Some other advice: when on these dating sites, I recommend trying to meet the person's friends as well as them. You really can't know anything about someone just by themselves.

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No

[Gerry]

I don't think you should. It's just a bad idea. Let him meet your family first, so there's no chance of him raping you or abducting you. Think about it though, there are dressing rooms where you're probably going to be changing into pants, dresses, and shirts, right? To do so, you'd have to take off the clothes and if he was interested in violating you in any way, he wouldn't care that there was a door between the two of you. Ever heard of people "doing it" in dressing rooms and bathrooms? Unless you scream for help, most likely after he's "made his intentions clear", the damage is done and they've seen his face, but what's been done can't be undone. Another thing is, has he told you what kind of clothing? Judging by the message you've put up for us, he doesn't make clear where he wants you to try the clothes on or what type. It could be lingerie and at his house after you pick it out. Rape and abduction can happen anywhere and at anytime. I hate to sound like a paranoid pessimist, but no one is really safe.

[dee D]

No ma'am, this is not a good idea to be with this guy you don't know, alone. There is safety in numbers (not just people in the mall).
Tell him yes on one condition, That if you can bring your brother with you for the first couple of times. If he does not agree with that, his intentions were wrong.
That is how many girls/women come up missing or get caught up in something that seem innocent and right, but it's not!

[Addison Black]

NO! The yellow snow has gotten to your brain!!

[Dee]

Honey, where there's a will, there's a way! I know you seem very brave, but I think it's too dangerous and you can write back telling him, no thanks, I have enough. Sure, the idea is nice, but you don't know who you're meeting online, so I think it's best to not accept anything from him. He's most likely a pervert and will expect something in return for his "graciousness". You don't need it! Good luck and be safe. P.S. Psychopaths prowl all over these sites and they look for young girls to prey on all the time. If they personally don't rape you, they try to sell you into prostitution and sex slavery. Ignore him because no one is that giving or generous.

[FMM]

Sounds like he's trying to manipulate you. I'd keep my distance from him if I were you. And a lot of things could go wrong.

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