I slept with a married man I love, why does it feels so intriguing?

[Sheilla]

I knew that it was wrong,and I've sworn to myself that I wouldn't even think about doing anything with him. But I did it anyways, why does doing naughty things felt so good?

[Rev White Al]

Because you are a weak person with no morals and only care about yourself. You also luv to suck the prick.

[Sweet love]

Wait for the consequences to find out why!

[Pardis]

for some women it looks good not for all.
some women like to eat leftovers of others.

[PowerIsEverything]

Because bad deeds often don't ripen in pain immediately.

If bad things didnt' feel good at first then people wouldn't do them in the first place. But if they felt good forever and never had any bad consequences then they wouldn't be called bad deeds. They're called bad deeds because they hurt other people AND they eventually hurt us as well.

You will start to realize the horrible mess you have gotten yourself into when you fall in love with him and then start wanting him to leave his wife and he refuses. Then you will be the secret mistress who wants to be the wife but is being strung along as he refuses to leave his wife OR he says he will leave his wife but he never does it and he just strings you along for months or years. It will be miserable when this happens to you. And even if he does leave his wife for you and marries you then you will have to worry about him cheating on you like he cheated on his other wife with you. You will constantly be afraid that he will start cheating on you and leave you for yet another woman. It will be a constant mental torture. These are the kinds of sufferings that come from having an affair with a married man (the same goes for men who sleep with married women).

And I haven't even yet mentioned all the other sufferings that come with affairs. His wife will probably eventually find out and she will track you down and call you or come to your house. She might destroy your property or key your car or make a ruckus at your home and bother the neighbors and call you a homewrecker in front of everyone and ruin your reputation and she might come to your job while you're working and b!+ch you out there and possibly get you fired. And she might start harassing you like crazy on the phone and on social media sites and tell all your friends what a horrible homewrecker you are.

She might even go so far as to beat the crap out of you or even kill you (it happens on occasion).

I hope I have made it clear to you how unpleasant affairs are once they start to bear their poisonous fruit.

Best wishes (I'm hoping you're wise enough to let this be a one time mistake and never repeat it (for your own sake) ).

[May]

I don't know why that would feel good, if this is a real question. Don't you miss him and want to be with him? He's with someone else, doesn't that bother you?

[Gentleman]

Like Man, woman has dreams for her MAN.... In the way, when she first finds the man of her dreams, she falls for him... She cant resist surrendering herself without looking at any other sides of the man... Its a heterosexual natural attraction.. It may be Love/ crush/ infatuation....Where you cant control your mind and heart and submit to him.....Though such relations have have no happy and long future... Mostly, ex marital relations are based on physical pleasure gratification where un married gals are mostly at loss (except some wonderful time in the beginning)

[Man-eating WOMBAT]

It feels good because you're putting aside the almost entirely abstract, arbitrary restrictions that society has placed upon you.

Sex has existed for about 3 billion years.

The social myth of "marriage" has existed about as long as the myth of "money."

That is, only about 6,000 years. Certainly not before humans developed agriculture. It really started out as a form of slavery. People created the idea in order to have an flimsy excuse to kill others in a jealous rage. Or even just treat certain people like pariahs, steal their posessions, that sort of thing.

People have been victimizing and exploiting each other, and inventing justifications for it, since we were apes.

Nature trumps abstract social idealisms.

You had the chance to reproduce. You fulfilled one of your most basic goals as a living being.

And yes cheating/ promiscuity benefits women equally as much as it benefits men, and for the same reasons.

[guyaneseboyz]

Payback is a BITCH...... You will not like