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would a girl do this just to be "friendly"?
02-28-2013, 02:51 PM
Post: #1
would a girl do this just to be "friendly"?
Okay, so there's a girl I'm crazy about whose younger then me. She knew I liked her since the summer.. anyways we started communicating (text/hanging out/phone/facebook chat) constantly. She apparently only likes me as a friend.. but we would talk about everything, 24/7. She calls me an "amazing friend". I asked her out on two different occasions, and she rejected me both times.. but we still talk. She apparently feels bad for saying no.. citing her "crush" as the reason.

My question: would a girl CONSTANTLY communicate with a guy, whom she KNOWS likes her, but she has no intentions of pursing the guy.. Is she just keeping me close to give her more confidence? I have complimented her in the past, but haven't since she rejected me the second time..

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02-28-2013, 02:56 PM
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She probably likes you as a very good friend. And yes, it is very much possible to spend all the time and doing all those texting/hanging out etc. with a friend who is of opposite sex. It's not her fault that she does not feel differently for you and its not your fault either that you feel differently. Now the common space for both is the friendship. So why don't you just accept her as a friend and start dating someone else.

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02-28-2013, 03:01 PM
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Maybe she's just doesn't see you that way. More like a gay bestfriend than a boyfriend no offense. Give her space and time. If you do that she might just stick around long enough to realize you're the one she wants and/or needs.
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02-28-2013, 03:07 PM
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My friend you are experiencing the common "friend zone"
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02-28-2013, 03:09 PM
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I think she just sees you as a really great friend, which is a really great thing. Just because she's not interested in dating you doesn't mean she doesn't want to be friends with you. She obviously sees you ad a great guy, but just doesn't have romantic feelings for you. I've been in your situation, and I know it can be tough. But in the long run, you'll end up with a really great friend who you may have for the rest of your life. And you never know, she could end up falling for you in the future
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02-28-2013, 03:15 PM
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Its an ego trip On her part. Don't sweat it move On.
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02-28-2013, 03:23 PM
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Sometimes yes. She likes you, trusts you, cares about you, but seems to friend zoned you. Sorry
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02-28-2013, 03:28 PM
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Trust me bro, she is a FRIEND. I've made that mistake once, for the first and last time.
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02-28-2013, 03:34 PM
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may be she is just testing you.. if you actually respect her or just want to sleep with her !!
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