How to talk to people I don't regularly speak to on facebook?

[Cameron]

Since I was quite young I have always been into games.. and it has kind of been my social downfall. I used to choose playing xbox or ps2 or MMORPG gams on my laptop over hanging out with friends and now.. I have the conversation skills of I don't know, a mute person. I have no problem talking to my close friends because I know the boundaries and it doesn't make me nervous at all to just say something random because I know if they're like haha you're a dick, I know they're joking.. But talking to people I don't know, my mind just goes blank. It's not that i'm scared of saying things it's that I literally cannot think of things to say. I have asked questions on here before and people are like, "Ask anything! Sports, weather, TV, etc." And I understand that but HOW do I start talking about those? For example I have been placed in a partnership with this guy Will in my college class and we basically didn't talk much apart from about the work occasionally whereas everybody else was having fun playing around and stuff with people they didn't know and I felt awkward and that I was coming across as awkward to Will, and I had no problem talking to him.. When I had something to say, but I don't have things to say and that's what I need help with. I am currently planning on talking to people I knew in my school on facebook but with my past experiences with this I seem to be pretty bad at it as all of my facebook conversations die down pretty quick. Please give me some detailed response on how to talk to these people and what to talk about, I know people say to be yourself but myself seems to be quiet around new people and that's not what I want to be. I'm also going to try to talk more tomorrow in college so please help with that. Again, it's not that I can't say things it's that I have literally nothing to say, maybe I should? But I think and think and think and nothing comes to mind. Pleeeeeeease please help me.

By the way i'm a 17 year old male.
I do a sport but it's not really a good outlet for talking, and I try but fail.

[Ilham]

go on chat
click their name
start talking

[Brandon]

Well do a sport, it's never too late to do a sport. That gets you talking about stuff and just ask someone a question, then just carry on from there.

[Taylor Thompson]

dude awesome! add me on the Xbox , we can play each other online, but any ways the key to making friends is to talk talk talk, trust me

[Normansgirl]

You have narrowed your chances of actually having an interesting conversation with someone down to almost nothing. I look on facebook quite often to see what is happening with my friends and children, but it only encourages a quick comment and then ............nothing. As you are 17 and not a child, I hope that you have some interest in what is going on in the World and, hopefully some specific interest such as sport, wildlife, conservation, or whatever. Come into the real world. Watch the news on TV or even listen to local Radio where you will learn a lot of what goes on in your area and the opportunities to be involved. You probably think this uncool, but you would be surprised how satisfying and fun this could be. You cannot just restrict yourself to converse about games you play on your laptop, as I think you are beginning to understand. Can you not get a part-time job at the weekends. This would expand your field of contacts and make your life more interesting. I really hope that you take my advice and that you soon have lots to talk about with new friends and aquaintances. I hope this has hekped.