I feel like not a single girl likes me, I've never had a girlfriend, and I'm lonely. What should I do?

[Adam]

I'm a freshman in high school and I have been wanting a girlfriend for a while, but now I'm starting to get desperate. I really don't care about looks that much, especially since I'm not exactly a supermodel myself. Just as long as she's not hideous. But my problem is, I am really awkward and I've never really hung out with girls my age before. I guess I can talk to them, but I've made an *** out of myself to several girls who I liked. I don't have the confidence to talk to them in person about my feelings for them, so I tell them via social media, which I have found doesn't work. So what should I do??? Please help!

[Connor]

Trust me, I am a girl and I understand exactly how you feel. What I did to get rid of that feeling when I wasn't with someone was just focus on my life and just lose myself in music. Just try feeling comfortable with yourself and build up confidence. Girls love guys with confidence.

[Unsure]

I'm really kinda the same way with girls. I'm just not a very social person. Really the best thing I've found to do was try and get their number (say a lab partner and help with homework or something), and try talking to them like that. Don't go telling them how you feel about them right away just try to get to know them better first. Take it slow and work your way to where the really start to feel comfortable with you. Really there's not much you can do being socially awkward like me aside from just talking to girls face to face, but that's what I found to be best.

[Tiffany]

Hey you just answered my question but the link didnt work so yeah... as you know im a girl Ok guys i like have a good sence of humor and arnt all about themselves... Idk if you have alot of guys friends or not but have them introduce you to them ... just be like "Hey" And start talking to them ... If your in the lunch room be like "This food sucks!" and be like "My dog can make better food than this!" And just be smooth I hope this helped!... Oh and start to hang out with girls ... ok bye

[Eddi]

You don"t have to have a girlfriend at your age. Good friends can help with the lonliness. I never had a boyfriend until I was a senior.Join a club or any other extraciricular activity, it will help build your confidence and help you make friends. Remember it's easier to be friends then boyfriend and girlfriend, so work on making friends first. Remember that you are important and you can build up enough confidence to talk to girls,