Do you take the advice of what social media promotes?

[Angelina Chappers]

I ran into these steps on how you should act when it deals with knowing a good friend or not. The dos and don'ts in a relationship.

I feel it sickening to my stomach to know.. that girls should ask their other friends about who they don't, should care about what they think.

I think you should have a mind of your own, not care so much about what other people think! I think manipulating others on how they should be is stupid. If you like someone then stay with that person.

It's not up to other people on what they think about them! If you're the one dating them or have a relationship with them. What does it matter to anyone else! It's none of their business.

I just hate that crap! It's like.. what about so, so. It's like what about them? I don't know them, so why should I judge them. If they treat me with respect, and loyal to me and love me for me. What does it matter about how other people feel about that person.

Uhh.. I'm just so sick of girls asking me the same freaking questions over and over again. Obviously if the relationship is over, he or she is your ex then.. there's a reason behind it! It means it's not going to work out again.

There's a reason why they're your ex! You're not compatible what so ever or share the same morals and values of each other. I'm also.. sick of girls talking crap behind my back. If I talk crap behind your back it means I don't like you!!

I'm tired of girls and guys using me and trying to be manipulative and then vindictive behind my back. Acting all sweet, kind to my face and just using my contacts, meddling into my personal life.

It's like get a life, grow a brain. YOu think I don't know how you girls act? You act all cunning, manipulative with wanting something, then.. you go out and try to ruin someone elses life to try to get ahead in life when you're just a heartless c*nt without a heart.

It's like do girls honestly think that you will get ahead in life by using people, using them for reputation or money gain.

I'm so tired of it! I'm locked up in this house, people only want to hang out with me when they want to use me for stuff. When I don't have any money it's like they don't want anything to do with me at all.

I'm so bored, far behind with my life that I should be having fun and living my life to the fullest. I mean.. someone needs to open their mouth, stand up and tells these gold digger girls exactly who they're, why we don't like how they're.

Also.. it's sad that other girls can't be friends with other females without being competitive and 2 faced. You think I like hearing about girls talking smack about other girls, then acting all nice to their face.

I had many girls who say "hi" to my face, and I'm just so ruthless and cold an honest! I will just look you in the eye, give you the stare. If I don't say "hi" there's a reason behind it. I just don't like you or respect you at all!!

I give you chances and then you walk all over me as if I don't have any feelings at all! It's like does anyone even know that there's consequences for the way you act, that bad things happen to bad people.

The economy is bad, and everyone knows about it. So sick of hearing about it but.. there's still hope! In hard times you're suppose to stick together, be loyal and giving to one another.

Not all about me, me and more me.. It's like what about him or her and other people. You think it's fair for someone to be giving, not being respected in return.

What's your opinion on that?

[Mike]

every person is the creation of him or herself the image of her thinking and believing,believe in who you are,not at what others think you are.and you will go far in life.when the power of love overcomes the love of power the world will know peace

[scorpus23]

i could care less what other ppl think of the person im with. I mean if someone says somethin- a comment, its kind of annoying but it's not like I listen to it or really care. It dosen't effect my opinion / thoughts about the person. I don't get people who listen to others crap if they already know the person or before they know the person. Unless it's coming from someone who has your best interest at heart and is really giving you sound advice sometimes you gotta go through it yourself to understand if the person is right or wrong. It's hard to tell that's why so many people can get away with these 'rumors n lies' crap- cause you never know if it's a person who is really telling you the truth or their crap is just based on a vendetta or wanting to spread something about them. Usually i know who has my best interest at heart though, and they rarely disagree with my own thoughts.

As far as females, yea some act that way and i couldnt even begin to tell you why because i dont do that or wouldnt, feel no need to and have no clue why they would, im still trying to figure out if its in their nature or if it's just cause they think they have to do that. I don't play that game. Would go against my beliefs/ it wouldn't make me feel good as a person. In fact i'd hate myself if i did that. Not all are like that. Ive had some good ones, but other 'friends' i had at the time seemed to screw that up, they got in the middle, wanted to play sides against eachother. The people who give me sh*t seem to claim im getting 'karma' or trying to perpetrate that i deserve it. Well, I don't - this is just the modus operandi or theme theyre runnin on to do their evil sh*t. For what reason? i have no idea. If I were them I wouldnt even be able to sleep at night knowing what im doing. But i guess social pressure/ and the desperate need for acceptance and approval outweigh morals.


PS.People don't always like when you have money.

[wishnuwelltoo]

Oh, this is so tricky. Yes, you need to have a mind of your own, but still you need the balance of friends and family to also give you advice. Advice is different from controllling you and running your life. If a person, any person, is in "love" they often overlook the red flag warnings that give them the clue they are actually dating an abuser. In a situation like that.....friends and family might have to rescue you from someone who would harm you. You are right though about manipulation and some people consume themselves with other people's lives and they should just worry about running their own life. (That part is about some in laws I had) I have that same problem. People take advantage of my friendship, not just with money, but sometimes it seems my only value is what I can do for a "friend" and my needs are never considered. It is a tricky balance between being a friend and being a doormat. I can't stand two faced people either. It is sad how many people like that belong to churches. I am that way too. I will trust a person until they give me a reason not to. That doesn't mean I won't stay their friend, or love them, I just simply don't trust them and I keep a distance with them. Sometimes there is value in keeping your enemies close to you, you can know what they are up too. I don't know if I sent you this poem before, but your post made me think of it.

There comes a point in your life
when you realize:
Who matters,
Who never did,
Who won't anymore...
And who always will.
So, don't worry about people from your past,
There's a reason why they didn't make it to your future. Author Unknown