Why is my ex acting like this?

[Christina]

My ex boyfriend dumped me over 6 months ago due to the fact, that I refused to have sex with him. I told him throughout relationship that I wanted to remain a virgin until I was ready, which he couldn't cope with. After he broke up with me, I deleted him off my fb and cut all contact with him. I didn't want him to see that I was actually hurt about the breakup, so I pretended like it didn't get to me. Shortly afterwards however my ex started tweeting very rude things about me and posted indirect posts about me on his blog. I continued to ignore it. He even sent him a 'mistaken' text message.
About 4 weeks ago, he posted 'How to piss off a girl? Tell her to call your ex gf for advice on how to give a *******'. I know for a fact, that he reads my tweets on twitter, as he recently mentioned the same thing which I did the next day. I honestly can't understand why he keeps posting such insults about me, when he's the one who broke up with me? There should be no reason for him to be so vindictive.

Today he wrote 'If I saw my ex-gf with another guy I would scream "Hey! That's been on my dick"'

I have started seeing someone else and I have moved on. But the fact, that he continues to write such things about me irritates me. It truly makes me physically sick seeing him write such insulting things about me.

[smallscale988]

hes hoping you will decide to sleep with him, good girl for not. try to block his number, hes harrassing you, thank gosh you two split up and it might be a good idea to get a new phone number asap

[Maxi]

Why because he is angry he split up with you and he is very immature.............. good on you for being strong and sticking to your principles............................ but if he is doing this you need to collect together all the evidence you can...even keep a diary as it is harassment and abuse and report him to the police............... they will have to do something about it what he is doing is affecting you and could affect your menal helth ( that is what you tell the police).............

[JuliaS]

to me, it sounds like he's hoping for you to say, "what can I do to make you stop?" and then he'll get what he wants! but eventually he should get tired of not getting the results he wants, so keep doing what you're doing. if it gets worse, tell someone!

[ty]

You have started the right path by initiating no contact, but did you initiate it correctly?

It sounds to me like you don't have a plan for no contact. This is a mistake, it you aren't careful or don't know how to properly use no contact in a breakup then you can easily create more problems. I am putting a link in the sources box that will help you if you are new to the concept of no contact.

Regardless of what you do, I wish you the best of luck. Breakups are tough, keep your head up and remember: This, like all things, shall pass too.