Men, guys does this mean that he's not interested?

[Jordan]

Ok, so basically there's this really....proper guy. And I sorta like him. I'm 15 he's 17/18 (he's a senior and I'm a sophomore). I only met him this yr cuz of this club were in (he's the president). I actually never even spoke to him, but from what I can tell he's the mr goody twoshoes that all teachers love, he gets a 4.0, took all the ap classes, and he's like 6ft tall and he always dresses...professionally. Like, he never has Jewlery on or a Bennie, he dresses in khakis (NEVER jeans), has a long sleeve shirt on that isn't any brand that most guys wear (they're usually from the men's section, his clothes) and he never dresses in sneakers he always dresses in these fancy guy shoes (basically, he dresses like he's a professional businessman). And sometimes he comes to school in a tux and a tie and a briefcase (it looks really nice on him) for no reason. He also never cusses and he's a really "clean" guy (for someone his age...he doesn't even laugh at dirty jokes). I am personally really impressed with his maturity and I can honestly say I'm attracted to him. Problem is he's never had a girlfriend in his life (didn't even hold hands with a girl yet) so idk what his type is but I have a 4.0 and I'm Harvard-crazy so we have that in common, plus I'm every ap teachers "favorite". But from I can tell he's a really nice guy and everyone loves him (to me it almost feels like I'm talking to a grown up whenever I talk to him). As I've stated before I never really talked to him but whenever we pass by in the hallways he always smiles ad waves at me for no reason (always he the first one) so i added him over Xmas break on Facebook (he's on there 24/7) and even changed his profile pic when we came back and he NEVER responded to the request (never rejected it either....) and he adds EVERYONE in his club, so idk why he didnt add me :'( Now we came back, i did encounter him and he looked at me i looked away and i saw him smile @ me shyly but im too scared to go talk to him tho :'( Then today I was walking with my friend and talking and I made eye contact with him (he was in a group of friends) I think he saw but then he moved to another group of friends as me and my friend were approaching him (its the same clique tho) but the group he moved to is closer to where my clique hangs out t so idk......help

[David Ames]

Do you know how to say hi? And call him by name when you do? If he works his way up to that same level, it will be time to push it a little more by saying good morning to him. Be as perfect to him as he is to everyone.

[Fishaholic]

Small chance.... You a sophomore - he a senior

Theres a big difference ya know.

Date like a sophomore or a junior.

[Bubbles]

Here's what I would do:

1) Dress professionally- like he does! But a girly style, you know? Pick an outfit you think he would really like.

2) Think up a good question about your club or something, and then go ask him. Try to ask a question where he will have a LONG answer so that you can talk to him for a long time. If you run out of time, just say "hey, put it on facebook and I think I've added you, so I'll see it. Have you added me?" or something, if that isn't too awkward.

Sounds to me as if he likes you! Good luck with it, you sound like a super cute couple! God bless! xx

[Seth]

You've just given us all the information we need, thanks. As for your answer, it's simple. He's not one to try and make first contact because he's covering something up. As for you, you're going to have to walk up to him and say hi. As a matter of fact, you're going to have to make first contact. He's not a goody-two-shoes. He's simply doing what he was raised to do and that is to bring his best forward everyday. It seems to be working because he's got your attention. All he has to do now is wait for you to come up and say hi to him. He's even smiled and waved at you. Stop being dumb and say hello before your window of opportunity is gone and he heads on off into bye-bye land. This is the chance you've been waiting for. Either you grow a pair now and speak or someone else will. The choice is up to you. You can do it.

[Taylor]

it sounds like he likes you (i had a shy guy like me once and he did almost the same things you described) however, i know a lot of seniors arent looking for gf/bfs because they will be graduating in a few months. if you want to still go for it, do it! it never hurts to try and not have to wander what if for the rest of your life. go talk to him about future club activities that he's planning after your next meeting! oh, and try to insert his name into the convo once or twice (but dont over do it)

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