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My boyfriend and I of three years broke up on X-mas and I find out all my exes are happy?
02-28-2013, 07:00 PM
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My boyfriend and I of three years broke up on X-mas and I find out all my exes are happy?
I find out through facebook that one of my exes from several years ago has a happy relationship and beautiful family and son, and he gets paid well through the Navy, and my other ex from several years ago is married with a child on the way. My boyfriend of 3 years and I thought we would get married and it turned out so bad. It makes me feel like a 30 year old who i like "What went wrong????" and is desperate to have what they have. The one in the Navy's girlfriend even had a picture of flowers and a note with the caption "I love coming home to this for no reason at all Smile" and I'm like UGHHHH I could have had that and here I am arguing with the boyfriend I just broke up with on x-mas for an entire week to buy me a freakin' french bread pizza since he stole mine out of the freezer! UGHHHH!

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02-28-2013, 07:04 PM
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They've moved on and got lucky enough to have a decent relationship.
Okay, good for them! Now is your turn to do the same. Envying others is a waste of time, and doesn't bring you anything good. So how about you use that time more productively and think of a way to improve your OWN life, yes?

Also, keep in mind that a Facebook picture won't give you an accurate description of what really goes on in their relationship. People on will post the stuff they are proud of. As for the rest, they'll keep it a secret. No relationship is "perfect." They must surely have a few arguments from time to time,.. but if they're still together, it's because they've found ways to compromise and/or fix things in a convenient way.

Forget the boyfriend and forget the pizza he owes you. Let him have it, so what? It's a pizza, get over it! Now get yourself a new one and eat it in peace, dreaming of ways to get the boyfriend you deserve and how you will move forward with your life. Good luck Smile

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