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Help, with the girl I like and a few life problems?
09-30-2012, 12:52 PM
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Help, with the girl I like and a few life problems?
First of all, the girl I like recently went to a sort of club, and kissed someone she'd never met before. I felt gutted for hours. We used to be really close but now we don't talk as much. I feel like we've grown apart and I really want to change that. Things like twitter have meant she's found new friends and talks to me less. I try to start conversation with her often, but she never tries with me. I see her telling other male friends to check their phones etc. Also, with the girl I like there is a group of friends that I find really cool and I consider myself 'in their circle'. However, over a few days in the summer I haven't been invited to the things that they went to, and it makes me sad as if they don't like me and they I don't have any friends. Also, I feel like I'm boring on twitter, as if I have nothing to talk about on it, this also might be why we've grown apart. What do I tweet about? Lastly, I keep thinking that I'm boring and my conversations are rubbish.

PLEASE help me. I have seriously considered ending it all, but I know I wouldn't.

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09-30-2012, 01:00 PM
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The only thing you can do is make friends with people you're comfortable initiating with. Initiating things to do, inviting them over, to go out, etc.

If you sit around and wait for people to 'invite' you to do something, you'll never get anywhere.

And just because you really like a girl, doesn't mean she has to like you back. If she's kissing others, ignoring you, etc...clearly she's not interested. Move on, find someone who feels the same about you as you do her. There's PLENTY of girls out there, just have to put yourself in situations to meet some. You're wasting your time with the girl you like. Not trying to be mean, just honest. Don't let her bring you down. Don't let your 'friends' bring you down, either...

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09-30-2012, 01:00 PM
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ummm...what do you mean your considering ending it all? That girl is not worth it. If she kissed another guy at some random club then your gonna have to notice shes not for you, but there is always hope..keep trying and be yourself, girls dont like it when your faking what you are. BE yourself and if it doesnt work, she just wasnt for you and you will find someone for you
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