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boy problems...please help?
02-28-2013, 07:43 PM
Post: #1
boy problems...please help?
I'm so sorry to all u fellow readers cause this is bout to b long so read at ur own risk.

Ok so, I have a friend, let's call him Daniel, who used to be my next door neighbor. He and me went out sometime in late sept/Oct of 2012. He turned 18 in late Sept. And he just graduated from high school last yr. And I'm 17 and in my senior year in high school. He's not a college dude. He's just at home, preparing for the navy (he wants to go into the navy). And so we went out for about 2-3 months but then switched over to being fwb's cause of something complicated that had happened between me and him but then b/c of something else that l8r on happened, we just broke up completely and just stayed to being strictly friends. And so the last time that I texted him was last Thursday during school and I told him that my mins are running short so I won't be able to text him for a while. And he said ok. But I do have his email address (I don't have twitter, Facebook, or any other type of social media network account) thats the last time that I emailed him was 12/13/12 asking him if his phone got cut off again cuz I thought that that was the reason why he wasn't texting me back but it was actually cuz I did something really stupid and clingy-like and blew up both his house phone and his cell phone by calling him like 5-6 times. And so when ppl do stuff like that to him, he just ignores them and his phone for a while. And so I haven't texted him since Thursday and haven't left him an email since 12/13/12. And I shot him like 2 more emails b4 then that he neva replied to. But I really wanna talk to him but Idk when to start nor how to start the conversation.. should I say something like disregard those last emails that I sent you or what? Plz help. Much appreciated! :'-}

and ps-i still have strong feelings for this guy, but I'm not gonna tell him that. Just wanna have a normal conversation w/ the dude.

Pps- we never did anything freaky to each other either, he lives about 45 mins away from me and he can't drive, nor does he have a job. Lol. We might've talked dirty to each other but what couple doesn't? Lol. And that's THE ONLY sexual thing that we did. Nothing more than that. When we were in a relationship we talked dirty to each other but we also talked about normal, nonsexual stuff too. Don't get it twisted, we did nothing else sexual except talk dirty. That's it. Ok, I'm done. Thanks for all the help in advance! ^_^
He hasn't been ignoring me. i just kinda pissed him off about 2 weeks ago but when I texted him last Thursday, he was ok. We were having a conversation and everything, so everything's all good again. I just wanna know if I should email him saying hey or whatever or just wait til I have mins back on my phone again, which might take a while....

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02-28-2013, 07:49 PM
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just be honest and say your mind ,OK

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02-28-2013, 07:57 PM
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Well... Just ask him how he's doing. Send him a picture of you. Talk about the weather.

Dear Danial,
How have you been? the weather here is not very nice how is it there?


~You
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02-28-2013, 08:04 PM
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From my experience the only reason you would wanna talk to him is because you have strong feelings for him. You really need to make a decision here, whether you really like him or not. I wouldn't consider an in between. It is quite likely that by talking to him, things between you two could get worse. either strait up telling him how you feel, or move on. Decide which option would be best for you in the long run, and follow that path.
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02-28-2013, 08:08 PM
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If he's been ignoring you, then that's a bad sign. Just move on and forget about this episode in your life.
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