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Have you ever loved someone so much that no matter how wrong they treated you, you never let them go?
02-28-2013, 07:57 PM
Post: #1
Have you ever loved someone so much that no matter how wrong they treated you, you never let them go?
Once again , im in my room crying over my boyfriend because a friend texted me & told me to read a convo between my boyfriend & another girl on twitter . ii dont have a twitter so ii looked up his twitter name & clicked on his profile . one day ii was at work & he was home alone , he got a 'friend' of his to come over & while im at work , im texting him asking him what he's doing & he's not responding to me whatsoever ... ii go read the whole convo until ii asked myself what ii was doing that day .. & ii just bust out crying .. he's done so much to me & ive cried over him (alone & in front of him) multiple times ... the top three :

1) a girl texted his phone when he was high & said heey baby .. ii started to wonder who it was & its some college chick telling him to come have sex w. her ... he completely lied to my face & said she didn't mean it like that .. it went like this :
Her: Heey
Him: wassup
Her: You in me o.O
Him: Wen
(she never responds)
Her: (around 9:30 , he's w. me) Heeeeeeyyyy baaaabbbbyyy
(a lil too much if you ask me )

2) He asks me to use my car to go to the store , said he would be back in 5min to chill w. me. ii was already half asleep when he asked me.. ii said okay & gave him the keys. ii wake up two hours later & he's still out . ii checked Facebook (his phone was off & so was mine so we messaged each other on there) ii sent him a message asking where he's at .. ii click the home button & his status said 'hacked by your bestie jamie' so ii instantly got pissed .. he comes into my house 10 min. later . ii start yelling & we got into it & he says im trippin for no reason & the girl put gas in my car for me ... then left out .

3) My brother showed me a screenshot of him talking to another girl who was telling him to leave her alone & he's asking her what she's doing , saying she's pretty , etc. (this was right after we got into an argument that day & ii had just got off work when my bro showed me; we got into an argument around 2pm & he sent her the first message at 2:07pm)

So you see why im mad ... I love this dude to death , ive been w. him for a year & 4 months && im 5 months pregnant w. his baby ..what do you think of this ? I feel stupid for still staying w. him even after he done all these things to me ... Everyone says to move on but its hard when you're in my situation :'( btw , we're both 18 ... if that matters .

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02-28-2013, 07:58 PM
Post: #2
 
yes it was a disaster. he ened up breaking my heart into pieces. i don't talk to him anymore but i still think of him!

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02-28-2013, 08:04 PM
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Why so much drama at 18 ??
What birth control were you using so we can get it banned ?

How about a little planning before you do anything else.
How will you be supporting a baby?
Who will feed it and change it while you are working (if you can get a job in this economy)
What is your future gonna look like with a kid in tow?

This is wrong on so many levels.
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02-28-2013, 08:05 PM
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Teenage romances.. They hurt like hell, don't they? And now that you're pregnant, you're more hormonal than ever. If your boyfriend has only been acting like this for five months or roughly as long as the time he's known that he's having a baby with you, it's possible that his fears of commitment have finally bubbled up to the surface. He wants to play around with other girls but can't get on with it because he has shared something very special with you. You're just 18, you can do soooo much better! By 'better', I mean either an improved relationship with him or a much happier one with someone else.
I wish you luck Smile
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02-28-2013, 08:10 PM
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Read that Steve Harvey book. They made a movie on it too.
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