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Need opinions. Please help!!?
02-28-2013, 07:57 PM
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Need opinions. Please help!!?
I had 2 really close guy friends Jake and Ryan and we became likes the 3 musketeers a long time ago. They were already friends before i came in the picture. I was ALWAYS with them and have so many good memories with them both. (Won't go into detail, i'm trying not to bore yall so much) They loved me and i loved them. Jake told me he loved me more than just a best friend but i dated Ryan instead......and have been for over a year. We have promise rings. I love him very much but i do love Jake also. I broke Jake's heart like a b***h i know. I didn't mean to but i wanted to be with Ryan more. We weren't exactly the same but we were still on pretty good terms. Jake still acted the same towards me and everyone still thought he had feelings for me. The whole time we were still the same. He would always say i didn't hurt him but when we would mess around he would throw in my face that i left him for Ryan and oh don't go there ms. "(however long it was at the time) relationship" and that i broke his heart, etc. He would occasionally mess around with girls but always came back to me and treated me different. It's been over a year since and now he has a girlfriend.........it was kinda at random. He acts like he doesn't care about her to other people honestly. My other friends see it too. The only time he acts like he does is on twitter and stuff because she's on there and sees it.. He tells people they aren't dating but the girl does say they are. At the dance recently he said i looked really great and seemed like he spent more time with me than her. I saw him watching my boyfriend and i dance and kiss out the corner of my eye. I thought i would have to be single because of something with Ryan but we figured something out. I was on the phone with Jake the whole day literally crying my eyes out about it at the time (Jake's always there for me) He thought i was single so he told me he loved me and i was like yeah not the same anymore though and he said that's what you think. He said he still kinda did feel the same way. Then after Ryan and i worked it out he is right back to his girlfriend and i feel sort of ditched. So why is he even dating her? I'm starting to feel how he did when i dated Ryan..should i? Does he still love me? Or what? Help! Thanks yall.

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02-28-2013, 08:05 PM
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Did you make a goal to use all the possible digits? Anyway, if Jake's a big boy, he'll accept your choices. If not, then who do you want, him or Ryan. Because it'll come down to choosing one.

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02-28-2013, 08:07 PM
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You a hoe shut up
No such thing as guy best friends period don't you watch chick flicks! Stop making your relationships so dramatic and move on with your life
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02-28-2013, 08:17 PM
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Both of you guys are messing with each other's heads. It sounds like you both have feelings for each other, and maybe if you told Jake that you like him, you and him can start dating. If you decide not to, then you should make it clear to Jake that you're not into him so he can move on.
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02-28-2013, 08:24 PM
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Well, you're just going to have to talk it out with Jake.He probably does still love you, but he knows that you chose Ryan over him. Jake most likely feels rejected and 'friendzoned'. I know it sucks, but you're going to have to tell Jake that he is going to have to get over you because you've chosen Ryan, and that decision is final.
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02-28-2013, 08:27 PM
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yeah i think Jake is deeply in love with you and would do anything for you at any time. do you know how many girls would die to have someone like that? The girl he's "dating" doesn't even matter to him. She's just company. YOU are all he sees. How do you really feel about Jake? Do you love him too? you know he's not gonna stay around forever if you don't grab him soon. someone else will come along or he'll get tired of living in torture.
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