How to be independent when you lost friends?

[Natalia]

I'm 16 in high school. I lost all of my friends because: 1) ever since last year, i've been being myself which to everyone is 'weird' and i'm always known as 'goth girl' or 'emo chick' when i'm just me. I like mixing things up a lil in terms of style. But i don't like labels. 2) they were backstabbers, liars, drama starters, and annoying 3) they were annoying and had 'problems' like bipolar, anger issues, and other annoying stuff.


So now i guess i'm alone except i have only 1 friend at school who i hang with all the time except lunch because we have different lunches. She understands me and she is a loner too and i'm kinda her only friend as well. I just don't want to be around people who annoy me and bore me. I know that sounds bitchy but it's the truth. I'm a nice person, but i decided to be honest, be myself and get out when i don't feel comfortable. I have friends on Facebook and other social networking sites, but i wish they were here.

Since i don't have all that much friends here anymore, i can't really concentrate in school. I can't stop thinking of what they are thinking and that i miss some people like my ex bf and ex friends. They look so happy now and have new people in their lives. I want to cry sometimes and just shout out "I'M STILL HERE!!!". Idk how to love being alone. How can i? Advice/ tips thanks.
i try making friends but people think i'm weird...and i'm not their type of friend

[Alina]

Girl.Make friends slowly I had one friend.Then everyone hated me.ThenI started making more and more friends.I have 3 friends that im super close too.Dont be friends with those girls again there bad news

[Jake]

Keep your head high. Walk with confidence. Even if it's just a mask, it'll show other people that you're doing good without them... This will attract new people into your life. You keep trying, maybe you'll meet some people who have similar interests to the real you. The biggest thing is not to sulk in it. If they looked like they've moved on and gotten new people in their lives, the best thing to do is that. As for staying actually happy, if you can, get closer to your family. Get closer to the friends you do have. Find things you enjoy doing that make you happy, and do more of those things.

[Beery]

If you're not naturally a loner, you cannot love being alone. True loners always prefer their own company to that of others.