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Am I too innocent and boring?
03-01-2013, 09:47 PM
Post: #1
Am I too innocent and boring?
i'm 14, and the majority of the girls in my school are very...idk how to say it. they dress in heels, low tight shirts that show a lot of cleavage, super short shorts or tight leggings, HEELS?! and they wear horrible makeup (raccoon eyes) and have had from 3-10 boyfriends. I haven't met one person who doesn't curse, and the people in my school try to be ghetto and stuff and curse a lot.
Idk maybe i'm too...innocent. even my own aunt has said it. I always wear clothes that cover my body and don't show off any cleavage WHATSOEVER I would be so ashamed to be seen by my parents and embarrassed if I ever even did. I wear pretty clothes, but not like the girls in my school do. i'm saving heels for my high school years (16,17) and I wear light, natural pretty makeup. I don't curse and i'm really quiet because I don't like to engage with those type of people who curse and dress like that...so people think i'm weird. people mistaken me for a 7th grader. I mean, I watch shows like glee, American horror story, etc...and i'm caught up with those annoying "dirty" jokes and I'm not STUPID I just don't like saying them.
is there something wrong with me?

oh, and while almost every girl in my school has had a boyfriend, i'm embarrassed to have one!


oh and I don't have an fb, twitter, instagram, ANYTHING. I think it's a waste of time, and people are shocked and continuously bug me about it.

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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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I don't think you're boring Smile I would be glad to know someone like you when everyone else acts like that around me

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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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Hi Macy,
You should be so proud of yourself.
God Bless and Happy New Year.
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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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I think you and many others would be surprised at how many of (those) girls, and boys too, would love to be just like you.

They just don't have the will and sense of security to be themselves and go their own way as you do.

I applaud you.
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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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School uniform would be a very good idea here. Good for you for not following the crowd and sticking to your principles.
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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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there's something unique in u. always try to think different and be different. your attitude is your's dont try to change it for which u will regret when u do.
i am also a guy like you, shy i dont like to talk to girls and so on. but later realised my attitude is unique than others. you are not here to impress anyone ,live your life the way u want. and enjoy the every bit of yourself.how you look physically is not important. And those crap social networking websites, dont bother about that as u said its waste of time.
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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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Yeah i know exactly what your saying. If i had advice i would use it haha. stay the way you are though, the reason they have so many boyfriends is because they cant keep one! They cuss to seem cool, and wear make-up because they are insecure. i doubt your whole school is like that, some people may be just like you and will do anything to fit in, talk to someone, maybe they arnt strong enough to be there own person on the outside. Smile
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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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Nothing is wrong with you! You are being you! Don't follow the plastics! Those are girls who are growing at a fast rate. I mean their not in college yet! lmao Keep being a leader. Don't pay attention to the trend. Believe me, I am in college and over the drinking age and I do not drink just to fit in with my friends. I am being me. Smile You are still young anyways, to be dressed like a wannabe 21 year old. lol I was just like you in HS. I was the typical jean and t-shirt type of girl. BTW, I graduated from a ghetto HS. They were cool though, their were 5 girls who would dress trashy, but good thing the principal did not allow it. Any girl violating the dressing code had to wear heavy set t-shirts! lmao Classic! Good for you for not having any social networking site. I have a FB, but that is only to catch up with family members who are miles away from me. Other than that, I hate it! Twitter, seems more for celebrities. I don't know, but I would be interested in more reading a celebrity tweet, than a regular joe tweet! lol Just tell those that bug you that you dislike social networking sites! Also, don't be embarrassed to have one BF. YOU'RE 14! So did I when I was your age! I had my second BF, when I was 19. I just listen to my heart. I don't like being in relationship just to have a list, or a title. Most girls are like that! Believe me, their are girls like that! : / Good luck, and continue being YOU, and a leader.
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03-01-2013, 09:55 PM
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Wow, Thank You Macy.

There are too few like you. You give me some hope for your generation, and this doesn't happen very often.

You are the Future.

Thank God.
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