Is it messed up for a mother to tell her pregnant teen....?

[Cara]

Who already has a kid from another father...that she's "so proud of" her "accomplishments" ?

Is that weird? I said it was messed up (i didnt say it on her facebook) and got dogged out by a bunch of girls for being "old fashioned and closed minded." They kept saying it is an accomplishment cause children are a blessing. Wtf? Going to university and being successful is an accomplishment. Having two kids by different dads by age 19 is not.

Des everyone think that it's cool to be a teen mom now? Does the world think its an acomishment and worthy of praise???

[Gt]

You're on the money, hang tough. Don't let them make you feel bad because you have views different from theirs.

[Marie]

Teen moms often SUCK at being mothers. The only thing she accomplished was being a stupid slut. Accomplishments? ACCOMPLISHMENTS?! It's an accomplishment to NOT get pregnant, get an education, get a job and being independent, travel the world, stay pure till love, sky dive, land a promotion, actually take your birth control, find a cure for cancer....lol accomplishment. I'm sure laying under a horny guy or 20 is a lot of work.

[☺☻♥♣]

Kids are only an accomplishment if they're brought into a family with a caring and PRESENT mother and father, that have good jobs and a house. And if they were planned.

Not if she went around having sex with everything with a pulse and getting pregnant...twice. It might be an accomplishment to recover from all your mistakes and still get married and give your child a good home and future, but not if she's single and still slutting around. And if that teen is pregnant it only shows how well she's raised her.

[ShinsFortress]

Cara, I totally agree with you here. I wouldn't socialise with someone like that. Not because there's a teenage mother (some circumstances are exceptional or tragic), but because that is a warped family.

Whether people like that are causal or symptomatic of the rot affecting society, I'm not sure.