My boyfriend is always looking at other naked girls/porn online. How should I feel about this?

[Kim1992]

My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly three years now and we have a good solid relationship but over the past year or so I have noticed he has been looking at lots of porn sites and google searches for all these different females and it really bothers me. He has no access to a computer so he does it all on his phone and anytime I see him google something his last searches are always porn sites and naked women all the time. Even on Twitter he follows all these girls that like to get their boobs out, take nude photos and stuff. The porn didn't necessarily bother me... Boy will be boys, but the Twitter thing really gets to me for some reason, I don't know why. I suppose I'm embarrassed that other people can see who he is following and I don't want them to see he follows profiles like this. I guess Twitter feels more personnel... It would just be like looking at other naked girls on Facebook? Girls he may know etc which bothers me a lot. I'm not sure what to do, how I should feel (perhaps I'm overreacting over this) or if I should say anything to him?

[Julia]

he's unappreciative...guys like these tend to find girls cheap... sorry :/ i would be upset ... answer mine?
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[Kellin Fuentes]

you aren't really overreacting, you feel how you feel and if you think that he shouldn't be on twitter with all these girls while he is in a relationship with you then talk to him, if you dont mind him watching porn then tell him thats okay but if he wants you the twitter stuff has to stop
ultimately this is your decision
hope we helped
-emileigh and kelsey

[Joe]

Maybe you should take a picture like that of yourself and give it to him. Then he might want you instead of the porn. Just a thought.

[Tiana]

Well, maybe he's bored . Spice it up girl . Wear some lingerie , be sexy , suck his dick , get nasty , freaky , if he's looking at those girls then I guess u better make him look at u and get his attention. Try to be better than them so u can b the one with his attention. Show him u can be just as sexy or even better .

[Austin]

Ask him if he is looking these porn sites up because he thinks you not good enough. That will get his mind rolling and maybe he will realize that your all he needs and should be all he wants as well. If it bugs you ask him to stop if he doesn't then fight fire with fire and make him jealous by looking up male porn in front of him and acting like you really like it. Good Luck

[Derek]

You should bring up the subject to him, I can see how listening to what they have to say is different than just looking at them. If he does not understand the core concept, you should look up a lot of large wang porn, and make another twitter to follow some well hung male porn stars

[Pippa]

I'd feel absolutely insulted about it if I were in your position and quite frankly, I think you're a saint for managing to put up with it for so long.
I would talk to him, tell him how it's making you feel.
We are women and we are a proud, independent, strong race and we deserve to be treated with respect.
What he's doing is really disrespectful! I mean, I get exactly what you said, "Boys will be boys." but really. If a guy wants to look at all that, he should at least have enough consideration to at least do it in private and not directly in front of you.

Yet again, I think you are a saint! I hope everything goes well for you! xx <3



- After reading some of the comments just now, I've noticed a few have actually had the audacity to say you're slightly at fault for not being able to keep him interested and you should do stuff like - and I quote - "Suck his d***." (cringe), and that you want to be better than those girls... girls who voluntarily degrade themselves on the internet, really can't compete with you.
I think you're a perfect gf, you've allowed him to get away with it for so long, and only now after three years have you looked for advice.
Really, I want you to know, you are NOT to blame for him being overly fascinated with the female anatomy.

[Kenny]

Show your body to him...

[Michael]

You should feel disrespected and dishonored.