I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. Should I tell the girl he is cheating with?

[dizzyd416]

Found out my bf was cheating on me through the girl he was cheating on me with's twitter. I want to send her a message and tell her that he isnt being faithful to her b/c I want to get back at him and I also think she should know. My friends are telling me to leave the situation alone and not say anything. But I really feel like I want to tell her. What should I do?

[Samma]

I would tell her

[Sean]

Yes tell her because she has the same right to know but also be prepared to prove it (for instance send her recent pix of you guys together or let her see and hear recent texts and voice messages he's left you because he's certainly going to deny it and make you look like a liar. So be ready to provide her with proof that he's still involved with you then you simply leave him alone! If she's smart, she'll also leave him alone. But if she stays with him then they both deserve each other! Best wishes!

[Kay-Kay]

F*ck you, Sunshine.
Yes, You should tell her. Cheating isn't right, and he gets what he deserves.

[Sarah Thomas]

tell her

[Kristina]

I think that you need to tell her.

[D, The Writer]

Leave it alone is probably a better idea. She might already know (that could be awkward right?) or might try to play victim and you're the evil wicked witch of the west for taking 'her' man. It could only get ugly. Worry not he'll get what's coming to him.. they always do......

[Satisfactions]

Nahh its f*ckoff Sunshine! Don't mess around with the community.

Now back to answering the question: I think you should tell her, it's good to let things out your chest. Like I just did with Sunshine.