I feel paranoid and worried, should I be?

[Jessica P]

I know this is pathetic but I texted my boyfriend at 10 and he usually answers decently fast because his phone is always on him..an hour and a half went by and there is no answer. He's also not on facebook and he is always on facebook at this time every night. I chatted his brother and he told me his car was there but he lives in the basement and he didn't feel like checking to see where he was and if he's okay. He told me sometimes he doesn't talk to his gf for days...which is pathetic and so not like my relationship. I am scared that he died or something and noone knows because his family goes to sleep early. He's 18 and isn't sick in any way but unfortunately i suffer with general anxiety and panic attack disorder which has been managed the last year but I feel it coming back slightly in a case like this. Do you think he just went to sleep extra early? Usually he'll text you goodnight before he sleeps, that's why i'm concerned. I feel like i'm over reacting but I just want to make sure my baby is okay!

[Amelia]

Try to relax. Maybe he has the flu. I had it a few weeks ago and there was no way I could even bother texting anyone. I was so sick. Try to get a hold of him tomorrow. If his brother isn't to worried I wouldn't be either.

[Ryan]

us guys tend to be very forgetful of our companions, so do not worry and do not panic. In fact, i think you should give him a liiittlle bit of space, you know, to help your anxiety a bit and to get use to him not being there every single second.

On the bright side, we know hes DEFINITELY not dead or anything like that, because his brother or his parents would here some sort of bang, plus he has no reason to kill himself, so dont worry on him dying or anything like that.

[thunderingscarf396]

No he is cheating on you right now. There is that better? Is that what you wanted to hear? Does it really matter for your young and the odds are this tard wont be around in the next year? Anyways he is moving on and is now dating a tramp who has a boyfriend and he does not know it so rest your neck! Your going to lose him because your a freak of the week!

[sugar pine 91]

my boyfriend falls asleep all the time and forgets to text me goodnight even though we always text each other goodnight. he falls asleep so fast that it's like he doesn't even think "let me text her goodnight before i really fall asleep". boys are dopey sometimes. just don't worry and lay off of him for tonight.

he'll text you in the morning!