Help pleaseeeee it's long but I really need advice !?

[anonymous]

So My ex and I have been together for 5 months . Lets say my ex name is John and my friends name is Sarah . So John and I got together officially in September . I started noticing Sarah was acting to flirtious with John . So I asked her about if and she said there was no way she was interested in him . So I asked John if he liked Sarah and he got a little pissed and said "I can't believe you just asked me that" so then I started to have trust in John and felt nothing was going on . So one day I go to Sarah's house and she said "I think I want to add John on Facebook." At first I thought that was a little weird but then I said okay fine . Few minutes later Sarah and I go to another friend house to pick up something and I see John driving and Sarah goes first to his window asking him for his number . I didn't say anything and I regret it . A couple days go by and Sarah is having a birthday party and as soon as John comes in she gives him a kiss on his cheek . I told Sarah I didn't like that . She says he's like a brother to her . But they only knew each other for 1 month ! She was always with us when we spent time together . I felt like she was catching feelings for my ex . Then I found out that John would call Sarah just to see what she was doing that night . He always called her ! Couple months later John moved out of state and we broke up . Sarah keeps mentioning johns name telling me she keeps having dreams about him . And a couple months later I met this guy named greg and I told her about him and she wanted me to invite him to her other birthday party..this is a year later.. I feel like every guy I talk to she wants to have a hold of them as well .. I don't know what is going on ..well I have an idea . But I want everyone's opinion . Do you think this girl is really my friend? Sorry this is super long ..PLEASE HELP ! It still bothers me to this day and I cannot get over the pain I feel .

[Tim]

Sounds like she is jealous. You obviously seem to have no problems finding decent guys while she seems to want the same guys your dating. My advice is to keep her away from your boyfriends.

[Katherine]

She isn't a good friend... if I were you I'd stop talking to her but if you don't want that then don't tell her about you having other guys... if she finds out make sure you KEEP HER AWAY.

[Diana]

Your friend is really attached to you, and your boyfriend. I would be annoyed if my friend did that. I think this friend of yours isn't your Best Friend, or Friend. She's more like...a person you know from work or school. Someone neutral. My point is, no, she is not your friend. She does not respect your privacy or feelings. And NO friend would ever like to make the other friend feel sad or uncomfortable. I hoped this helped. Good luck!