Everyone at school hates me now? Do you think what i did was wrong?

[Your Pretty]

This really popular slutty snobby girl (the kind that wears low cut shirts&& thinks shes the hottest thing on earth) On facebook she wrote a status saying 'Im so ugly this is a curse'. 30+ people commented and told her shes soo pretty.and a bunch of people liked the status... I kept seeing this all over the news feed. I know she knows shes not ugly at school i always see her stareing at her self in the mirror and she takes a million pictures of her self.. SO I WROTE A STATUS, saying ' people who call there selves ugly just want attention obviously you know your not ugly so shut up you just want compliments'. NOW EVERYONE HATES ME. everyone is bullying me now saying i;m a bully yet they are bullying me.. She un-friended me then wrote a status about me, Now thats fake. atleast when i talk shiiiiiiit about people i make sure they can read it not un-friend them then talk shiiiiiiiiit. My boyfriend agrees and said what i did was wrong and my sister called me rude... what do u think???I;m not a mean person but c'mon i hate hearing people call there self ugly when I KNOW they are like obsessed with there self.. please no harsh comments everyone at school already hates me..

[Kendra]

I think what you did was a bit dramatic but it's the truth. A bit of information. People hate hearing the truth. : (

[s p]

be urself .. u r right.. but yeah.. if i were u i would hv opted for hiding the feed instead of going onto wall n posting abt it.. no doubt she is egoistic n attention seeker .. ur bit of philosophy ll definitely hurt her. it wont help her see the wrong.. so why waste ur energy on talking abt such ppl?

[Hey]

That girl sounds very immature, I often used to see the same sort of statuses and it would make me SO annoyed but i never actually wrote anything about it, i simply deleted all immature b*tches and those up themselves guys from school off facebook and have only my friends and other nice people that i know and its the best thing in the whole world! I feel so much happier on Facebook now! They never said anything about me un friending them and its all good now! You writing a status probably wasnt a good idea because you probably knew she would know its about her, im not saying it was wrong that you did it, but im saying it was probably not the smartest idea. I think you should delete all her friends off facebook, ignore the bullying and just not worry about what those "popular" people are doing its not worth your time seriously you will feel much happier and better! As soon as you wipe it all out of your life and learn to ignore their bitchiness the better! Good luck!

[Rob]

sounds to me that you didnt like those people telling her how pretty she is, which motivated your comment... your problem is that your idea back fired on you

and FYI... people post statuses on facebook for a whole bunch of different reasons. maybe she was hoping a particular guy would comment. maybe she DID feel ugly that day(it happens to all of us good looking people).

i'd say an apology is in order. not some dramatic public apology... just an apology to her in private

[Steven]

I don't think you were necassarily wrong, as it was a true statement. However, if someone who's fat said how insecure they were about their weight or something along those lines, and you said 'I hate people who say they're not fat when they're really a pig'...that would be rude wouldn't it?

[Babyface]

Saying the truth is right but hurting and making people angry is wrong.
In a way you are both right and wrong.
Usually it's best to keep your mouth shut when you see the ugly truth. Next time don't do such things. If you are ever going to do such a thing, don't do it in public. Never ever. It'll end up giving you a bad image. Esp. when people say nice things about them.
Yes that girl did wanted attention. Right now, you can't take back what you said. So you'll have to defend yourself when they say mean things about you. Be cool. Don't hate anyone. Don't let hatred get the better of you. When people talk about how bad you are for saying that tell them what you said was not wrong. Be polite but firm in your speech. Don't get into an argument and end up saying mean things to them and using bad words. Tell them you did told her she's not ugly. You didn't said anything wrong. Everyone knows she is hot but how come she doesn't knows? She should be more aware of herself than others. People are always aware of what they are and what they want. Why doesn't she believes she's pretty when she is? A normal person would never call themselves ugly if they know they are pretty. It's irrational and can only be interpreted as calling for more attention. She was wrong to call herself ugly. She shouldn't have called herself that. Tell them if they think you are wrong then they are narrow-minded. What does narrow-minded means? You should know this otherwise you can't call them narrow-minded. Being narrow-minded in simple words means that the person only focuses on one point (here they are focusing on that girl) and they never try to or attempt to understand anything other than that (here they are not trying to understand you). This is the reason why narrow-minded people are bad judges because they don't try to understand everything. They only try to understand what they like. A broad-minded person will listen to everybody's side of story even if they don't like that person. They are more likely to be good judges. They listen to everyone before judging and treat and respect everyone equally.What's more is that they make us realize our mistakes. The only problem is these people are less and narrow-minded people are more.
Tell them that you are really hurt and can't believe you thought of them as your friends(if they are your friends). Tell the same to your bf and sister. I think the reason why they are not on your side is because many are on the her side (the girl who caused this problem). I have gone through stuffs like this a lot. That's why I can see that those people who are against you are narrow-minded. I had to defend myself. There were very few people who were on my side. Like you, my sister too didn't take my side. She just didn't tried to understand me. I stay cool when I defend myself. I never let hatred or anger get me. I know that if I succumb to it, I'll make wrong decisions. I only speak what I believe in. Whenever I'll speak I control my anger and emotions and do my best to be polite and understanding. Though sometimes, I'll end up crying.
So you should do the same. It's best to avoid fight anyway.
So be polite all the time when you defend yourself. Be in control of your emotions. Talk about this with your mom and dad too and a close friend. If they don't understand, tell them you're hurt. If they understand be glad that you are not alone.

Take care.