My ex and I have been through a lot*?

[Cboy]

So, to summarize things up, my ex and I are both freshmen in high school and we dated for a pretty long time. When we were going out, everything was amazing and perfect. Toward the end, we started getting into arguments and eventually fighting. At one point, he got so distant and I couldn't take it anymore. I dumped him thinking that it was what he wanted, but I'm not so sure it was.

When I started talking to other guys, some being our friends, he flipped out on me and got really upset, which led to a huge argument. He was being really immature and said some really mean things to me to make me feel insecure so that I wouldn't go after any other guys.

A few days later, him and his friends started harassing me on twitter and he called me fat and ugly, which isn't even true. They were saying really nasty things to me and i started to hate him. He was making my life hell. I got a group of my guy friends to come over to him at the mall the other day and tell him off and it worked.

Last night, he texted me and said how he had been thinking about what happened and how awful he felt and how sorry he was and explained to me that he's been really upset because his grandfather is really sick and that the break up was really rough. I accepted his apology, but let him know that I was still not happy about how he harassed me. I could tell he genuinely felt bad and he kept the conversation going from dinner time until bed time. I know he fell asleep while we were texting last night, but I have a feeling he won't respond today and it's killing me.

Talking to him last night made everything feel better. All of the hurt was gone. I just felt so happy, and now I'm feeling like he's never gonna reply and we probably won't talk again. I know this sounds crazy but I want him back because I can't help but think how happy he used to make me. Help?

[Juliet]

Tell him you made a mistake and tell you still love him

[Weasel McWeasel]

My grandfather is really sick, so I took to cyberspace to berate and harass you, with the help of my friends?

what the HELL kinda BS excuse is THAT????????????

Hon, it's simple...........when people care for you..............the last thing they want to do is PURPOSELY hurt you.

People who go out of their way............especially when their grandfather is sooooooooooo sick.......to harass and humiliate you.............are f****** idiots. and you need to kick that moron to the curb ASAP.

You can't be someone's DOORMAT in life, unless you ALLOW IT.

Remember that.........and tattoo it on your forehead and it will save you countless grief in life.

Never accept someone else's crappy behavior. Never.

[Aqua]

An ex is an ex.

If you get back together, he'll be an ex ex.

Time to move on with your life.

[Marco]

Have you really changed?

It doesn't matter why the break up happened, you were at fault to some extent. There were things you could have done differently; better. If you try to get back together without anything changing, then you are going to eventually end up where you were before...split up. As much as you may wish to change your ex, you can't. You can only change yourself. However, you can't fake this in the hopes of fooling your ex into wanting you back. So you not only need to ask if you have changed, but also how you have changed.

Where did it go wrong? Don't be too quick to answer this question, lest you get a misleading answer. Take the time to analyze what caused the break up. you will also need to uncover any underlying issues. Understanding where things went wrong is the first step to getting on the road to making up successfully.

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