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If love is true and deep, will she realise that I deserve her? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?
04-16-2013, 06:47 AM
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If love is true and deep, will she realise that I deserve her? 10 POINTS FOR BEST ANSWER!?
She is beautiful (oh sorry! she is gorgeous), and her heart, her mind - everything about her is so beautiful.. I met her through the internet.. We used to chat on facebook, and yahoo messenger - I still remember when I used to tell her everything, everything about me, my situation-past (I always felt as if we have been together since ages) I confessed my liking, my love, may be too fast (because I always confessed feelings and I always said what I meant..)

She possesses qualities of one in a million - her poems and she draws too.. everything she does as a friend/more than a friend is charming, and more more mesmerising.. and I am very lucky that I have such a friend who cares about me so much.. I love her since over 2 years and I always wanted it to be more than being best friends - even at this point I don't know what she thinks about it? - I feel deep down she also likes me more than a friend. (she loves me as a friend!)

I love only her and no one else. I am sure if I marry I will only marry her and I had decided I wouldn't look for any other matches, means - no to dating, seeking marriage alliance except her (and she knows it well)

I would like to add - after so much time of no direct communication still I am head over heals, I am in so much love (not conditional) and she knows once she provides me an opportunity I will do everything/will be natural that I make sure she becomes happier.. (she can be at her natural best and express her all feelings, she can tell me everything she wishes and rest assured that our friendship, and my feelings wouldn't change..)

If she doesn't come - I am not gonna change my mind, and I will wait till the end of time living with her memories (& You know No questions asked even if you kill!)

So I know this is all about what I think, so what is the question??? Question is - If love is true and deep, I can remain hopeful that she will think about me, and providing me an opportunity so that she can realise I am worth her or I deserve her? This is true love!

No rude comments, Please provide only positive & nice answers!

PS: she said she is from the same community, the same religion and the caste and she is a SC specialist if that helps!

If I am right, we saw each other and stared into each others' eyes and her eyes (that gaze was amazing!) were amazing!

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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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wow, sounds like you found your soulmate. and thats great. especially that you became friends first. thats always the way to do it. tell her this stuff, write her a love letter.. something to prove that you truly love her and always have and want to take it to the next level..?

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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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do you love her
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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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If this is in your destiny so you'll get her.otherwise not.try to talk abt this to your parents.and take opinion of them.if they arenot agree,so conveice them,but don't angry then bcoz they are equal to god.and if you love eachother deeply,there are not another thing then love in both your mind so you'll be ones.and pray to god for both you.i hope you'll get her as your partner.
Best of luck dude.
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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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Dude! There is a possibility that could occur between you. Love should be from both not form lone. Definitely you love her more than a friend but does she love you? Thats the main question. So try to convince her by showing your kindness and love and by givinG your best effort. As per your question, yes its possible to turn into a real couple if you persist. Try to convince her that you are the right person. Girls love the talenT OR gift you have in you. I mean god gifted. Example like intelligent or good in study, good looking, simplicity etc etc. So try to show it to your girl may be she might fall for you. So dude, first and foremost step towards love is the friendship. I've read somewhere that 99% of the friendship turns into love. I mean most of the friends marry each other. And i hope you are included in the list. So dude, as i've said, yes there is 90% chance for you. And i would advice, stick to your girl and don'T her go away.
Best of luck dude. Hope your girl will be only your's, none other else.
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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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Hey man thats great. Even my story is also same except online(i loved offline)
Being friend is critical area in love because if u propose her its good if she accepts but really bad if she refuses even break frndshp. So first make her to like you more do whatever she like make her love you.
And be a little possessive see that she can leave her friends( boys) for you. And if she does that the you can confirm she loves u more than a friend. But do this slowly. and also check if she comes for u. Like make a fight and wait for her to come and talk first else u talk. but if she talks the u confirm she cant be without your contact. Now slowly propose her and see......
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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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I know you want only positive feedback, and I really want to offer that, but you also need some constructive criticism. I'm not giving you a hard time, I think that if she really has mutual feelings about you, It will all be fine! HOWEVER, saying you deserve someone is not a good sign. You want her to know you deserve her, that makes it seem like you see her as a possession, and NO girl is a possession. You can "deserve" a vacation, a cup of hot cocoa, a drink, a high five, a promotion, but NOT a person.
I'm not sure if this is helpful at all, but if you do tell her that you think you deserve her, you should maybe re think your approach. You don't want to scare her off! If this really is true love, it doesn't hurt to go slow. I know that sounds difficult, but if you think about it, marriage is supposed to last your whole lifetime, taking a while to get to know her, and let her get to know you isn't a bad thing.
Good luck!
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04-16-2013, 06:55 AM
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Hi ARJUN. Read the article on how to get a girl to like you at the website below. I hope it helps. Good luck.
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