Does adding the boy you like to Facebook actually work?

[Naharadiel]

Hi! I'd like to know if it is a good idea to add to Facebook a boy you usually see somewhere and who you feel attracted to, but you have never talked to. Is it better to leave a message when you send the invitation or not? Then, supposing he accepted you, how would you start chatting?
Thanks

[Teen]

add him but not send him a message yet

[N]

Why don't you actually talk to this person. Talking face to face is a great sign of confidence. Studies have been conducted on numerous occasions that show confidence is the main attribute that causes attraction, look it up.

[Vikki]

Yeh as long as you talk, but things like that can easily become just Internet friendships and nothing more really really fast, so it won't work for long

[ic]

send him a short message.
not reaally, better ways to make true friends.

[Casey Carver]

I once added a guy I liked on facebook. He is now my boyfriend If i hadn't added him and started chatting with him, I know we wouldnt be together today. So obviously, I do think you should add him but dont send him a message, it's wierd for a stranger to spend time writing a message to someone they dont know and it might come off as creepy. Work your flirting skills and hopefully you'll be as lucky as I was Good Luck!