Should I go for it???????????

[RIcky]

I'm a bit hesistant when it comes to relationships because I don't like to hurt women. I always need to make sure I really really like a woman before I can ask them out since I have a hard time finding women that I actually like. I've hurt many women in the past and I still feel aweful about it.

To start things off, I met a very lovely girl in my college class. Ever since I saw her, she always cought my attention. I talked to her many times, and she started to interest me but not enough to be my future girlfriend. After class ended, I was going to ask her on a date. Unfortunately, I wasn't able to ask her because I finished my final before she did and I needed to get to work in 20 minutes. Now one of my friends added her on facebook and just by seeing her I know that I like her.

So I'm asking you guys if I should add her on facebook and tell talk to her and ask her on a date.
Then again should I? If I wasn't a man enough to tell her in her face why should I do it over facebook? I'm not a coward and I don't like hiding my face or pour out my feelings towards people over social media.

Problem is, she's on my mind constantly and I feel that I need to tell her what I feel. Should I wait til I see her in a few months in the college we attend our should I tell her over facebook?

I want a girl's opinion on this.
Guys are welcome to answer too.

[LolCats]

Hey, yeh I am a girl and 100% would I want the guy to ask first. Just go for it. Nothings gonna change between you to if you dont let it happen

[lumpee]

I'm a guy(an old one) first DO NOT ask her in facebook unless you want the world to know if you are successful in asking her out,or not. Call her NOW! If in fact y ou really like her,don't let the chance slip buy,you'll regret it later.