Should I apologize to this girl through Facebook?

[john]

Four months ago I asked my crush that I have had for almost 4 years to hang out. She said ya and offered to pick me up. She seemed really interested at first. I bailed four times because I was nervous to be around her. I don't know if she is till interested but she is a Senior and leaving in a couple months and I regret not going with it so much. I am so mad at myself. I am going to talk to her in person and apologize but I won't be able to for maybe over a week. I can't wait that long so should I apologize over Facebook and tell her how I couldn't wait and tell her sorry or wait in do it in person. I am just so mad and want to tell her right away but I feel like it will be more meaningful in person. What should I do?

[Siddhu]

Tell it in person

[Amanda]

Do it in person

[Lucy]

Grow a pair! Stop being nervous! Be the man! Say sorry in person and be yourself! She'll appreciated your honesty! Come on, have a shower and wear some nice perfume and get yourself together and go to her and speak with her!

[DD]

IN PERSON PERIOD. Be honest with her just one good sincere apology and owning up to your wrong is all you can do in that aspect. Be sincere. look deep in the eyes and say "I am so sorry". Admit you were wrong and tell her that you'll not to make the mistake again. Don't try to impress her, because that's not what she wants. She's going to want you to prove that it won't happen again. Go to the store....get some flowers, (or a flower),and chocolate might help too: give her a big/small teddy saying sorry or love you/ like you. and write a little note of soreness.(poem) I will help you writing one.) She will forgive you but make sure you will never ever stand her up again.....everyone in class will be all...."AAAWWWEEE". make sure let her know why you are saying sorry first. Make sure you really are sorry, make her feel special. Man-up! Be sincere. Admit, you were wrong. DON'T apologize! if you don't mean it, don't even bother. she knows when you're lying and don't think for a second that you can fool her. AGAIN REPEAT.. Most importantly in person. And to tell her how wrong you were, your wont do it again, Apologize. This is the most important step. Don't wait to do it. The longer you wait to take action, the less it means. Don't just say I'm sorry, state your apology in an intellectual manner, IT MUST BE AND sound genuine. If you want her, be sincere and specific in your apology. Acknowledge what you did wrong. The best way to say an apology is to say that you're sorry for what you did and how can you make it better. Make a promise to yourself that you won't lie to her again - and don't! If she believes you, don't use the opportunity to keep lying. The only way you are going to ever get her trust back is to be honest. Remember - once burned, twice shy. This only depends on what happened. MOST IMPORTANT IS TO MAKE SURE YOU ADMIT TO WHAT HAPPEN SAY "It's my fault!" "An explanation of the problem. "Owning it + resolution. This is, personally, my usual course for almost all problem situations where I am at fault. "Owning it + resolution looks something like this, "Yeah, I probably should've been more HONEST WITH YOU BUT I WAS SHY OR WHAT EVER YOU FELT. SAY TO HER That's my mistake. Let me get this one cleaned up, and next time I'll be more conscious of where I put my elbows." SHOW HER THAT You've clearly made a mistake,(My mistake. I'll be more conscious of that next time, AND I PROMISE NEXT TIME WILL NEVER EVER DO THAT AGAIN AND TELL HER EXACTLY WHY YOU DID WHAT YOU DID PERIOD. AGAIN NOT ON FACE BOOK NOT EMAIL ALL MUST BE IN PERSON AND HOLD THAT SMALL TEDDY AND THAT FLOWER/S UP TO YOU CARD POEM I WILL WRITE YOU ONE IF YOU WANT...RREPEATEAPEAT REPEAT IN PERSON NEVER EVER ON FACEBOOK THIS IS YOU AND HER NOT THE WWW NET. ALL MUST BE CONSIDERED PERSONAL AND IN PERSON IS THE BEST WAY TO DO IT PERIOD. AND PLEASE STEP UP MAN UP AND DO IT NOW DON'T WAIT ONE MORE SECOND OR FORGET HER PERIOD SHE DOES NOT NEED SOMEONE WHO WILL NOT BE THERE WHEN SHE TRULY NEED YOU.. SHE NEED TO KNOW YOUR WORD IS A MAN WORD NOT JUST TALK, IT'S TALK AND ACTION PERIOD.. GOOD LUCK BEST WISHES LET ME KNOW WHAT HAPPEN SOON READ MY EMAIL SEND YOU ONE..