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How doe it feel to love someone?
04-29-2013, 12:14 AM
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How doe it feel to love someone?
Im not talking about family members. Im talking about other people, girlfriend or boyfriend husband or wife. I once loved but i have not loved anyone ever since. Ive experienced so much in my life I lost the sense of loving someone else( not family, I love my family) but loving someone you met throughout your life adventures. 10 points for best answer. Tell me, what is your best experience?

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04-29-2013, 12:15 AM
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you think about them 24/7, you cant Waite to be with them

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04-29-2013, 12:26 AM
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I can only answer as a man! I found that the beginning of love is when I started to care deeply for the young woman. This feeling of caring was strong enoug to mostly quench my sexual desire towards her, and so, at times, when not with her, I would have strong lust feeelings towards her, but as soon as I saw her, then the desire to care and protect her took over, and put the sex feelings in their place.
Also, I was drawn to thinking of her at all times, of our future life together, and the fact that on matter what I did, I would never deserve her.
The urge to give her everything was rather strong, but also unpratical.
I never had sex with this woman, neither did I marry her! Someone else married her.
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04-29-2013, 12:41 AM
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It is a little different for everyone, I would guess. I also think you would know. For me I felt unlike anything else - but lust had done that to me before. Then I realized that I would do whatever was needed to be with her, make any sacrifice. That her needs and desires were more important than mine were, that I would lay down my life if it meant she would live. If something made her happy, it made me happy. I have been at the point you are - nothing touched me, no feelings were very strong.
That was why I new this was love, because it DID touch me, DID make me feel - it made life worth living again. I hope you find it, and if you do, never let it go. Good luck!!
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04-29-2013, 12:45 AM
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I feel there are three types of love.

There are aquaintances: aka "buddies", peeps, etc... anyone you do not trust but care about. Not enough to say love... but enough to mention them.

There is "friend love": This is when you tell your grandma, your sister, your bff, whomever,... that you love them. You say I love you because you care about them in such a fashion that you remember their name, keep in contact with them, and spend time with them because you WANT to. There is no sexual attraction in this affection.

There is "sexually affectionate love": This is your boyfriend, your girlfriend, your fwb, your ex, your crush, your etc... You love them as you would "friend" love, but it is coupled with sexual attraction. While this attraction may be minimal, it still exists (even if your not willing to admit it to yourself or your friends)

Then there is being "IN LOVE": This can only be one person at time. You will not question this when it occurs. You will find yourself spending too much time looking at them, thinking about them, and talking to or about them. You will facebook, myspace, twitter, etc stalk them with/without thinking about it and on occasion you will send them a message or comment and just as you are about to send it.... you will think it over a thousand times before deciding you are too much of a wimp to do it and never send it or say anything at all unless your friends give you a pep talk. You will think, eat, sleep, and breath this person. You may not realize you are in love with this person instantaneously as the emotions and attachments for this person may grow over time. Trust is everything and so a strong friendship must be in place for a relationship to work with this person. You will get butterflies when you think about them and it was feel as though the lighting changes when they walk in the room.

When you are IN LOVE with someone.... you will love them more than you will ever find a way to tell them you do.





....you can never fall out of love with someone you were once in love with. Nothing can break that bond. Anything less would love based off of false truths and that is just being in love with your perception of what they were.
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