Why is my friend with this girl? 10 points?

[Terse]

My friend has a girl who isn't good looking at all, funny cause he gets other nice girls but he is with this girl.

He takes her on holidays and buys her stuff like a Tiffany necklace at Xmas, like he has just taken her on holiday today for her birthday but he cheats on her constantly!

Like he slept with some girl I know, she told me when they were having sex he took the condom off and he keep talking to her about having children ect. This was the first time he met her but they were talkin for about 6months. She said he was talking to her about her being his girlfriend ect she kinder found it creepy and she stayed round n he made her breakfast in bed ect.

Anyway they fell out after for whatever reason and he was with his girlfriend when he fuked this girl and he bare backed her and he bare backs his girlfriend!!

I know his ugly girlfriend cooks for him and she must know he cheats and she doesn't give him any headache about cheating but I'm just wondering why he is with her?

Like he always says on his twitter about his girlfriend being the only "real" girl he knows ect.

I just don't get it like he is my friend but this girl is ugly like and I don't get why he spend money on her? Does he love her do u think? I mean he tells the boys he doesn't but has love for her but I don't get why he spends money on her or post pic of her on his twitter and why he is with her period tbh

Do u think it's cause she let's him cheat and do his thing?

How can u really love someone and cheat?

What's ur opinion on this? I know he tells her what to do and she listens, like she can't go clubbing or anything

[Mella]

no i don't think her loves her and i don't think he really knows what love is...he just sounds like a demanding controlling pig to me.

[pretzels11]

His poor girlfriend! No offense but your friend sounds like a jerk! A lying, controlling, manipulative jerk! There's no guarantee that his gf knows about it either. Have you tried talking to him? Like "dude what hell is wrong with you" cuz he needs to make up his mind and normally I wouldn't advise getting involved in something like this but if he won't tell his gf about it someone should because I'd hate to see him get some disease or something and spread it to her!

[yay_me]

he loves the fact that he can have the sexual/physical benefits of the ugly chick, and he loves the fact that shes not leaving. he loves that shes not leaving, because it makes him powerful, and it makes her powerless. fucked up really. he might not be realizing it, but i know people like this who do it consciously and unconsciously. and obviously he has to paint a picture for the world, which makes it ominously seem like he knows whats up.

as for the cheating, he wants variety in his love/sex life, which he coulda gotten with one person that fascinates him, but instead he chooses to dominate the poor unnattractive girl at the expense of her personal freedom and self esteem and receive exciting-type pleasures from various girls he cheats with.