What can I do about her?

[Silver119]

So this girl from work I was seeing like 8 months ago because I told her I didn't want to be just friends she started saying I was stalking her among the people we work with. A lot of people stopped talking to me.

About a month after that it came out that she'd been spreading rumours about a lot of people and a lot of them fell out with her because of it. She started talking to me again and trying to be my friend because she didn't have any at work. (You could see she'd been crying before coming in for her shift) I was nice to her but kind of dry and decided to call her out on the rumours she was spreading about me and everybody else. She denyed everything and we stopped talking again.

At one point I was talking (flirting) with one of the new girls and she walked past. She came and started chatting with me in a friendly manner when I was on my own about 10 minutes later. Again I was kind of dry but tryed to be nice about it.

We talked a bit here and there for a few weeks. I told my friends about this and they told me that she was a nasty little bitch (which I agreed with) and to not even give her the time of day. So I stopped talking to her this time.

I've recently found out that for the past 6 months she's been telling every new girl that comes to work with us that I'm stalking her, texting her(I don't even have her number), saying things I haven;t said.

I even found out that she was plastering stuff about me all over twitter and she even said That I;d asked her why she'd blocked me on facebook. I haven't had her on facebook since august 2012 and I didn't know she had blocked me until someone told me about the twitter thing and I saw her say that! Again I had her disciplined at work for the twitter thing. but she's still saying things about me

There's lots of theories about why she's doing this such as: she likes me or doesn't want me and doesn't want anybody else to have me. I personally think she's just doing it for the attention.

But my question is What can I do about it?
It's not my attention she's looking for (well I don't think so anyway) It's everyone else's. It's the whole sympathy "OMG I can't believe you had to go throught that..." reaction she's looking for.
It's not my attention she's looking for (well I don't think so anyway) It's everyone else's. It's the whole sympathy "OMG I can't believe you had to go throught that..." reaction she's looking for.

[trh2000_2000]

First, STOP having office relationships. Look for someone OUTSIDE the company. You see how much trouble this got you into?

Second, you need to report to your boss about the hostile enviroment. make it known that you are filing a complaint about the office nature.

[hotwheels122287]

whats the point in doing anything?.... if what she wants is attention then DONT do anything about it. shes being stupid and immature. stop acknowledging her just do your job.

edit: still not your problem. you cant control others reactions. keep the drama out of work, or you might as well be looking for another job. bosses want to see who handles stress in a good way. if you dont react and he sees that shes causing crap, who do you think he will want to keep and let go?