Getting bad vibe from best friend, but i'm terrified?

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So i'm a female and my best friend which i have met since the beginning of this school year is giving me a really bad vibe. My best friend is male and he has opened up to me and told me his lifestory i have open up to him and told him mine this was before he gave off this bad vibe. I go up to him and ask advice on guy issues, my friend is really smart and he gives me advice. Since i've been getting this bad vibe from him i've noticed he has been avoiding me and part of me tells me that i should avoid him as well. However, there is this side to me that tells me his my best friend and that is silly to feel this way. He moved away to a different state but when I saw new pics of him on facebook i got that bad vibe again to the point my heart starts beating so fast and i'm terrified. I called him and texted him before and he never replies and when he does he says that he is so tired from working but he has time to upload pics of him on facebook. I feel it's weird and it scares me. Should i avoid him and forget about his friendship or tell him how i feel?

i don't know what's causing the bad vibe but i just know something doesn't feel right
EDIT- i don't have a crush on him I did on the beginning but not anymore i've seen him as a friend for a while. the physical attraction towards him is absolutely gone. in fact i'm head over heels for another guy.
@ Cookie Monster- I would feel uncomfortable. I get the feeling that he would hurt me (can't differentiate whether it'd be physically or emotionally by betraying my trust, somehow now i'd feel it'd be physically), but idk why he is nice and sweet to me.

[Cookie monster]

is it possible you are developing feelings for him more than just friends type deal and are worried about what he does in his spare time when you arent around?
or is it possible he seems to almost be changing like mentally deteriorating in a way and you can see it but just dont realize it? tell me what thoughts go through your head when you see him?

so whats the problem then are you afraid of him? are you afraid for him? i mean if you saw him face to face right now how would you feel uncomfortable or just sad?

do you fear maybe he is jealous now that you are attracted to another person and he is just kind of stuck watching from the sidelines.


This is my whole theory on whats going on with him and its all hypothetical you fell for him he fell for you too he just didnt show it immediately or in an apparent way and you wrote him off as boyfriend and friendzoned him he was probably pretty devastated by it and felt kind of blown off to the side he reluctantly continued to talk to you and be friends even when it was tearing him up inside you then started asking him about guys and that just basically probably infuriated him as it would any male who is attracted to a female and he kind of developed a hatred for you not permanent just a "how the fuck could you be so heartless/stupid" type hatred and it kind of radiated off his aura every time you were around him. He wouldnt ever hurt you physically, but verbally i think he would probably tear you a new one since hes probably been holding this rage in for awhile now. seriously call him and talk to him and ask if this is kind of what happened, trust me he probably definitely wants to talk about it if this is the case he just doesnt want to face it and seem foolish.
My theory of whats going on.

[Talya G]

I think you are starting to like him and he might (possibly) like you too.

I think you should say to him that u have been feeling a bad vibe from him and see what he says....

good luck!

[TWO SIDES OF ME]

uhh. I guess 2 things maybe 3 but unsure about the 3 thing. either 1 he is interested in someone like a another female he may be seeing and doesnt want to tell you or be bothered. 2nd he could have romantic feelings for you but doesnt know how you would take it. Sometimes people who we have a crush on we treat them bad or avoid them so they wont know we like them. It may be change the friendship if we did like them. 3 maybe he just need his space so give him space and act like you dont even notice he change.

[lonalea2003]

If I were you I would ignore him for awhile and see what he does. I think you shouldn't have to chase your friends down. Let him seek you for a change. If he never responds them he obviously isn't as good as a friend that you thought you were. You may never know what bad vibe is about. But maybe if he contacts you you could bring it up and get it out in the open so you can talk about it. It might even make you two closer. But don't chase him down, he needs to prove that he is your friend. Otherwise you're just wasting your time. Good Luck !