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Should I tell my ex before or after her operation?
05-01-2013, 09:12 AM
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Should I tell my ex before or after her operation?
Me and my ex broke up a week ago and are getting on ok however I still have feelings for her, and I slightly wonder if she still has them for me (I don't know for certain). I sent her an email telling her how I felt and asking if she wanted to have another try at a relationship. She doesn't check her emails often so I wondered about telling her I sent her an email over twitter but I'm unsure whether I should do that because...

My ex is having an operation tomorrow on her bladder (its not a high risk operation). However it will mean she won't be able to eat for a while afterwards so she might be moody until she can eat again. On the otherhand, right now she's probably a little stressed about the operation. What should I do, should I tell her how I feel before the operation, or afterwards?

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05-01-2013, 09:14 AM
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No

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05-01-2013, 09:20 AM
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Wait for a time when she would be more receptive.
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05-01-2013, 09:24 AM
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I think you should tell her before the operation, but not tell her the email, tell her in real life. I know it might be hard to explain it all and embarrassing and whatever but if you truly loved her ud show it by doing it face to face, and there's a lot more chance shed take you back. Good luck and hope this helps
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05-01-2013, 09:33 AM
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hey u have nice oppurtunity dude......use that
the situation which is appearing to u is like a challenge.......but i say u make that challenge an oppurtunity.......

see now u dont tell anything to her.....
instead u too be sad, as pretend that ur not feeling good as she is having operation.....
go near her and do wt and all u can do to her......serve her when she is need.......if anyone asks, tell them frankly that's its my duty towards her.......and be with her all time possible..and serve her.....u see by unadulterated service only love is manifested.......so tell wt ever u want to tell her through actions instead of words.....as action speaks stronger than words..........and use this circumstance to delever ur actions.........channelize ur actions den words.....by doing so u convience her.....

thats all
hope for the best....and fear not......move on, trust in god and show everything in actions

one personal advice by me to u, for ur benifit:
u alwaus rember the proverb
" circumstances are the ruler of the weak, but instrument of the wise "
and always be wise

all the best
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