I dont understand her. your thoughts?

[Missingno]

I met a girl over a year ago.
We got super super close and would speak every night on Skype.
And I would go see her in her town on some weekends.

We eventually confessed our feelings for each other and was planning on getting together officially.
However, a few days later she told me she doesn't see me that way now, and just loves me as a friend.
We were on good terms after that, but didn't speak to each other for perhaps 2 months.

Roughly 2 weeks ago, she messaged me on Skype and we had a catch up.
She told me she kinda regretted us not getting together, and she wonders how it would have been.
She said that she lost attraction for me because I'm "Too nice" (I think she meant 'needy?').

I agreed with her that we could get back to how we was, and then we arranged to meet up the next day.
The next day, she told me she couldn't make it and cancelled.
I was fine with it, but didn't ask to meet her again, to avoid seeming desperate/needy again.

The next few days she was on Skype, she wouldn't make any effort to message me!
And I was determined not to message her first, as I didn't want to make myself seem 'Too nice' or 'Needy' again.

After a few days she messaged me first, but asking what to buy a guy for a birthday present, and then told me she was seeing a guy friend on the weekend.

We haven't spoken since then (almost 2 weeks ago) and she hasn't been online on Skype which is weird..
However I have seen that she is active on Facebook.
I'm kinda worried she blocked me on Skype for some reason? though I doubt it..
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My question is this;

She messaged me asking if we could ever be how we was again, and then shows no effort to make it happen?
What the hell is going through her mind?!??!?!!

|f anyone can explain it, you are a genius.
Thanks for any help/advice

[Maria]

This girl doesnt know what she wants! Maybe she is not sure what you are feeling at the moment and is waiting for you to make a move. Try it out if you like the girl..give her a call and ask her out! If she rejects or cancels on you again,best to just move on and find a girl who is right for you. Best of luck!

[zealouscreator596]

well she seems to not know what she wants....seeing you and another guy made her even confused...and she really also seems to know her feelings to you..and also if a girl likes you then she likes you no matter what ..not because u are too nice or you are too bad...it just an excused for her .if she block you on skype because she doesn't want the other guy to know about you obviously you dont need a girl like that.. if she block you then let it...you should just move on not hope for a girl that dont know what they want it just a waste of time on the other side someone would be dying to be with you out there ..and dont tryna add her in facebook and if she ever message you just act like a normal friends and dont show interesst on getting together with her in a relationship ..you dont want to be her last option.....good luck