I broke up with my girlfriend and now I miss her to death..?

[ella]

I broke up with my girlfriend because I thought our relationship was obsessive (she always needed to know where I was, texted 24/7, stalked social media when I was away..sent me 1000 emails in one week while I was away visiting family).. wouldn't believe in personal space

But i miss her so much.Even though I felt afraid at times and trapped with her, now I miss her so much it hurts. And I'm not sure I did the right thing

I feel so horrible I can't sleep because I don't know if I did the right thing or not.

We have a lot in common and were so happy until I was worn down by her obsessiveness.. but I didn't give us a second chance.

I just want to know if you think i did the right thing><

[Jesenta]

No she was acting like that just bcoz she loves you so much and cares about you!!!!

[Parker]

Welcome to relationships. My advice is this. A great relationship is when both people can tolerate each others BS , and allows the person to stay who they are. If your partner wants to change you then why stay . If your partner wants to know every detail when your away there is a trust issue. You sound like you love her , you should express your thoughts on being smothered .

[MerryDemon800]

yikes you had someone that cared & let that go :/ talk to her and apologize

[FutureMaleRN]

Okay so not that I am a relationship guru, but I've had my fair share of less than healthy relationships. Not sure how old you are since that definitely changes things, but in my opinion your relationship sounded way too codependent. Whether you believe so or not people who are that clingy tend to eventually try to isolate you from friends and family. It's not usually because they are vindictive, but they are usually very needy and expect your attention 24/7 which isn't healthy. And the e-mailing you while visiting your family thing whether you think it or not was selfish of her. You were there to spend time with them and from the sounds of it she wasn't concerned with that. I have gone through the break up get back together trap so many times. You break up then your sad because you start to remember all the good things about them. Then when you get back together you quickly realize all over again why you broke up initially. I'm not saying that you shouldn't by any means give it another chance, but give it a few weeks to a month to let things settle then decide if you want to get back with her because you still miss or you'll realize you are over her.