Is it ok to be alone in school?

[thunderingnotebook651]

i've once had a group of friends. But they treat me really badly .. Ignore me , gossip about me , post bad stuff about me on twitter , rude to me and isolate me. So i've decided i'd rather be alone in school than hang out with them. I've already decided. I want to be alone so theres no friendship problem and i can concentrate on my studies. So is it ok to be alone in school? Like PE classes .. and at lunch sitting alone? is it normal?

[cαяℓy™]

Of course not, but getting out there and meeting some new friends couldnt hurt either. If your more comfortable being alone, go for it. Thats completely fine.

[Brandon]

As long as you don't care about what others have to say then there's nothing wrong here. Being alone is much better than hanging around backstabbers. And yes it is normal everyone needs their own personal space sometimes. Hope this helped.

[Keris]

if thats what you want to do it is totally normal!
you shouldnt have to put up with that from so-called 'friends'.
your friends should support you and want you to be happy, theyre obviously not nice people!
maybe instead of being on your own (which there is no problem with, i just mean if you get sick of it after a while) then you can always try and make a new friend, or join a new group in school.
whatever you do, dont cling on to the group who are treating you bad, its not worth it!
good luck hope you find better friends!

[soburrr12]

I'm sorry to hear that.. high school is awful. But honestly yeah its totally fine especially in your condition. These little friends you meet in high school might not be your friends as you get older. I feel like being on your own makes everything easier at that time. Your fine. Stay strong.

[Moneybag1010]

totally. yes it is completely okay and normal

for me, if you wanna bother reading this all,
my last last semester of high school i ate completely alone at lunch, didn't want to sit with anyone either. the couple times people asked me to sit with them i refused, even a girl and a guy i kinda knew asked to go sit with them and i refused.
she even took my backpack and put it on the other table so i could go sit with her group, but a guy from that table brought it back. i'm evil i know :/ i had my reasons for being alone though.

my classes, i worked on everything by myself. i was a true loner
i kinda strayed when some girls started talking to me in my accounting class. ugh. but it's all good, we switched seats because of teacher and i was a loner again

the other semesters though i wasn't that bad. that was the only semester i flew as completely solo as i could.

honestly it's good to fly solo a bit. you get work done, you stop messing around in class, you concentrate, you avoid drama LOTS of it. i had very little drama next to none actually, just a little that i viewed but since you have drama, i think you especially will LOVE solo time. good luck

[hissingappliance561]

if you feel you can do better flying solo, then by all means! be independent! But speaking as someone who decided to go that route for a while, it got tremendously lonely. I was more depressed than I was when I was hanging around a bad crowd. You don't have to have a big group of friends. Sometimes all you need is that one person you can count on. Your best bud. And if you don't have one, trust me, you will find one. We all do. some people go through a few until they find the right one. (friends are not one size fits all, it takes work to have maintain a great friendship.)
As for those other girls that are gossiping about you, they are fools. Honestly, don't give them the time of day. In a week, you probably won't even remember their last names. Let them waste their time on gossip and be little debbie downers. You focus on yourself and do what you feel you need to do to help yourself thrive (not just survive!) I have faith in you!
~Shae~